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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12877165/family-jailed-abusing-vegetative-bride-arranged-marriage.html

Family who 'doused bride in chemicals' and 'force-fed her pills' that left her in a vegetative state because she 'failed to meet their expectations' after she was flown from Pakistan for arranged marriage are convicted of abuse

    Ambreen Fatima Sheikh suffered 'irretrievable' brain damage

By Chris Brooke and Tom Cotterill

Published: 13:57, 18 December 2023 | Updated: 15:44, 18 December 2023

Family members were today convicted of the sinister physical abuse of an arranged marriage bride flown from Pakistan who has been in a persistent vegetative state for eight years.  Ambreen Fatima Sheikh can breathe unaided but has suffered 'irretrievable' brain damage that has left her with no consciousness of the world around her.  A court heard that Ambreen may have been the victim of a possible 'torture' with a chemical substance, and there may have also been an attempt to kill her with a dangerous drug.  However, exactly what happened behind the closed doors remains uncertain because the family closed ranks and none of them gave evidence in their defence at Leeds Crown Court.  Before joining her husband in Britain, Ambreen was said to be a well-educated 'happy-go-lucky' young woman. But she spoke little English and once in Huddersfield she barely left the house. Next door neighbours revealed they had no idea she was even living there for nine months.  The court heard the probable explanation for the 38-year-old's condition was that she had unwillingly swallowed tablets prescribed to her diabetic mother-in-law that resulted in a hypoglycaemic attack.  Such tablets are extremely dangerous if taken by non-diabetics and have been dubbed 'one pill killers' to small children.  The prosecution said that the tablets were not taken voluntarily and by then the socially isolated and vulnerable Ambreen had suffered a 'pattern of violence' behind the closed doors of the terraced house in Huddersfield, West Yorkshire that she shared with her husband, parents-in-law and brother and sister-in-law.  A large black wound on her lower back was said to have been caused by a caustic chemical substance in the days before Ambreen was rushed to hospital in an unconscious state. The chemical probably also caused an injury to her ear, the court heard.  Anyone in the household not involved in the physical abuse would have realised she was at risk but taking her to A&E would have led to questions being asked and an investigation.   Police were alerted when hospital doctors feared Ambreen's injuries could be suspicious. Nurses were also concerned she was 'malnourished' and 'unkempt' in appearance.  Ambreen was initially put on a life support machine and police believed they could soon be dealing with a murder inquiry.  When the ventilator was switched off Ambreen was able to breathe but has remained in a vegetative state with no change in her condition since August 2015.  Police questioned all five family members who lived in the house and no one provided an explanation for what happened. Ambreen came to the UK in November 2014 after marrying Asgar, now 31, in 2013 in an arranged marriage in Pakistan.   He told police: 'I love my wife so much why would I hurt her?'

But eight years after Ambreen's collapse Asgar, along with her father-in-law Khalid Sheikh, 55, mother-in-law Shabnam Sheikh, 53, sister-in-law Shagufa Sheikh, 29, and brother-in-law Sakalayne, 24, went on trial over the bride's treatment and an ensuing cover-up.  The jury took 10 hours to find Asgar, Khalid, Shabnam, and Shagufa guilty of causing or allowing a vulnerable adult to suffer serious physical harm.  Only Sakalyne was found not guilty of this offence.  Shagufa, Shabnam and Asgar were also found guilty of doing an act intending to pervert the course of justice. All five defendants were found guilty of conspiracy to pervert the course of justice. Sentencing was adjourned.  When questioned by police at the time, Sakalayne, then 16 and a school drop-out, said: 'We don't really talk to any other people. We keep ourselves to ourselves.'

There was evidence Ambreen 'didn't meet expectations' and fit in with her new family.  A relative of the Sheikh family said they complained she was 'smelly' and didn't shower regularly and did not cook and clean for her husband.  The couple were said to have 'had a fight' that led to Ambreen sleeping in another room. There was also an incident three weeks before Ambreen was rushed to hospital.  A relative had tried to contact Ambreen by phone and asked her daughter in Yorkshire to check on her. When she and a man knocked on the door Shabnam wouldn't let them see her and an 'angry' Asgar came to the door and allegedly threatened 'I will kill you if I see you again.'

The incident was reported to police and officers visited the next day to check on Ambreen, who was found to show no signs of distress, neglect or harm.  But something did happen in the house with disastrous consequences to Ambreen's health and at 1am on August 1, 2015, the family called for an ambulance. They reported Ambreen had suddenly become unresponsive.  She never regained consciousness and medical evidence indicted their account to paramedics was a lie.  Experts believe in reality she collapsed unconscious up to 48 hours earlier and suffered a brain injury when her airway became blocked.  She had been vomiting and incontinent but paramedics found her clean and in clean clothes after being moved to another bedroom.  Her soiled clothing and bedding had been disposed of in a wheelie bin outside and under a tarpaulin downstairs an attempt claimed prosecutor Robert Smith, KC, to deflect any police investigation.  Ambreen was not diabetic and several experts concluded her condition was the result of hypoglycaemia a low level of blood sugar that can cause brain damage.  Although there was no evidence to indicate how it happened, prosecution experts concluded that Ambreen ingesting one or two tablets of her mother-in-law's prescribed glimepiride medication which lowers blood sugar in diabetics was the likely explanation.  It was described as a 'really powerful drug' which can kill a young child who innocently swallows one.  The judge remanded Asgar, Khalid and Shabnam in custody. The two younger defendants were given conditional bail.

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Faith / The Christian Life — You’re Either Climbing or Slipping
« on: December 10, 2023, 04:15:07 PM »
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The Christian Life — You’re Either Climbing or Slipping

Sometimes we fail to understand how powerful compromise can be in our lives. No one falls away from God overnight. It’s something that happens over time a slow, methodical process.  The moment you stop going forward as a Christian is the moment you will begin to go backward. If you put your Christian experience in neutral, then you will go downhill, because this is an uphill climb.  As one person put it, “The Christian life is a lot like a greased pole. You are either climbing or slipping.”

Applying Yourself Spiritually

In fact, the Bible tells us that in the last days some will fall away from the faith (see 1 Timothy 4:1). The question is, do you want to be one of those people?

You don’t have to be. It begins with applying yourself spiritually and avoiding taking unnecessary chances.

The evangelist Billy Sunday said, “One reason sin flourishes is that it is treated like a cream puff instead of a rattlesnake!”

The Bible says, “And remember, when you are being tempted, do not say, ‘God is tempting me.’ God is never tempted to do wrong, and he never tempts anyone else” (James 1:13 NLT).

Along these same lines, the writer of Romans pointed out, “Don’t you realize that you become the slave of whatever you choose to obey? You can be a slave to sin, which leads to death, or you can choose to obey God, which leads to righteous living” (Romans 6:16 NLT).

For sin to flourish in our lives, we must cooperate. And far too often we don’t take responsibility for our actions. We are living in a time when no one accepts responsibility for their actions anymore. It is absolutely shocking to see the crimes people are getting away with and what is happening in our courts.  In our crazy, upside-down system, no one is responsible for anything they do. We are all victims. We are all dysfunctional. However, if you’re a follower of Jesus Christ, then you need to recognize that you must take responsibility for your actions.  In the Garden of Eden, Adam offered what appeared to be the first recorded excuse in the history of humanity. After he fell into sin, he effectively said to God, “It isn’t my fault. I’m not responsible. It’s the woman you gave me.”

Next was Eve, who offered the second recorded excuse in history: “The serpent deceived me. … That’s why I ate it” (Genesis 3:13 NLT).

Protecting Your Mind

When Satan wanted to lead Adam and Eve into sin, he started by attacking Eve’s mind. Paul warned, “But I fear that somehow your pure and undivided devotion to Christ will be corrupted, just as Eve was deceived by the cunning ways of the serpent” (2 Corinthians 11:3 NLT).

In our minds we reason, contemplate, dream and fantasize. The Bible says, “We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments” (2 Corinthians 10:4 NLT).

We are living in a time when we’re barraged with images. We can access hundreds of television channels with worthless things to watch. Or, we can go off into cyberspace and explore all kinds of things. People are filling their minds with this content, and some of it is evil and perverse. And sooner or later, what we consume will work its way into our lives.  Just as what we eat affects the way we feel and act, what we feed our minds affects the way we behave. Thoughts translate into actions.  Certainly, we are living in a day when immorality seems to be at all-time high. Lust and passion continue to devastate countless lives every day. Scores of fatherless children are growing up without morals and absolutes as people treat sex casually and don’t stop to think about the consequences.  When I was a teenager back in the late 1960s and early 1970s, it was a time of great revolution and change. We were pushing away all the boundaries and discovering things for ourselves. And what a Pandora’s box that turned out to be.  The Bible tells the story of Samson, who had all the potential to be someone great for God and lead his nation out of the state of backsliding they had fallen into. Humanly speaking, he had superman qualities. There was no one physically stronger than he was. Mentally, he was sharp, clever and alert.  Though Samson was strong in some ways, he was very weak in others, because he never learned to control himself.

Flee From Sin

Make no mistake about it: Sin is powerful, and it’s intoxicating. We think we can handle it, but we can’t. The Bible tells us, “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts” (2 Timothy 2:22 NLT).

Flee from sin. Don’t toy with it, because sooner or later, it will pull you in and trap you. That is what happened to Samson.  Of course, we all will sin. We all are going to fail and have our lapses. Maybe you’re thinking, “But my conscience is hard. It’s calloused.”

The good news is that Jesus Christ can resensitize your conscience. He can bring you back again. He can forgive you. Only God can do that for you, but you must turn from your sin.  The best prevention against falling into sin is a committed relationship with Jesus Christ.  When Jesus Christ is who He ought to be in our lives, we won’t be looking for other things to take His place. We won’t be looking for sin to fill the void in our lives, because we’ll be satisfied in our relationship with Him.  However, if you are a fence sitter, if you are a compromiser, if you are trying to live in both worlds, then it is only a matter of time until you go down.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: December 10, 2023, 04:02:38 PM »
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Raising Kind Children Who Reflect the Heart of God
March 15, 2023
by Laura Wifler

“Therefore welcome one another, just as Christ also welcomed you, to the glory of God.” Romans 15:7 (CSB)

It was a hot July day, and we had picked up a few of my children’s friends to take them to the pool.  My youngest daughter, who lives with intellectual disabilities, jabbered excitedly in the car, talking about water and goggles and pretzel bites (her favorite snack to get at the concession stand). But because of her speech delay, I was likely the only one who could understand what she was specifically talking about.  As we pulled into the parking lot and piled out of the minivan, my daughter grabbed one of the friend’s hands and continued speaking enthusiastically to her, pointing at the pool and laughing as they walked in.  “I can’t understand anything she’s saying,” the friend said to my older daughter, with a nervous laugh, as she tried to pull her hand away.

My older daughter, who is 7, replied, “She has disabilities. But you can still be friends with her. She makes a really good friend.”

As a mom to a child with global disabilities, I often see the discomfort children have when interacting with others who are different from them. I understand this! Even as adults, it’s natural to feel hesitant when observing behaviors or movements that we’re not used to.  But God calls us, as believers, to move toward those who seem different from us and to extend kindness and compassion. What my 7-year-old daughter said that day to her friend was a deep truth that reflects God’s heart. “Therefore welcome one another, just as Christ also welcomed you, to the glory of God” (Romans 15:7).

So how do we help our kids model God’s love for those with disabilities?

There are many ways, but here are four to get started:

1.  Teach them about the Imago Dei.
Every person on the planet no matter their abilities has been made in the Imago Dei, or image of God, (Genesis 1:26-27) which means they have inherent dignity and value. The Imago Dei reminds us that it is a privilege to know another human being, and there is not one person who is not worthy of our time.

2.  Help your child to see how they have sameness with another person.
Research shows that having diverse friendships is healthy and helps make children (and adults!) more well rounded and compassionate. But research also shows that no matter how different two people are, friendship is always formed on sameness. That might be a similar upbringing, a similar taste in movies, or a similar love for a certain type of food.  By pointing out similarities, we can help our children see that they have sameness with those with disabilities. Maybe both children love dogs, or maybe they love playing tag, wearing the same color shirt, or even simply wanting to laugh and be included. Above all, we can show our children that no matter what, they have sameness with another person simply because of the Imago Dei.

3.  Expose your children to various disabilities.
Sometimes, a child simply feels discomfort around disabilities because they haven’t been exposed to adaptive equipment or haven’t had different behaviors explained to them. Thankfully, these days there are a lot of positive representations of disabilities and adaptive equipment in books, shows and media that you can pause and take time to explain to children.  In addition, when you see a person with disabilities, tell your children that you’ll explain and answer questions privately, later in the car or at home. Of course, if your child says or does something mean or rude (even unintentionally), it’s best to address it immediately.

4.   As a parent, model God’s heart for those with disabilities.
As an adult, I sometimes need to be reminded of the truth my 7-year-old shared as well. “More is caught than taught,” as they say, and our children are watching to see if we have diverse friendships and live what we’re teaching them.

We won’t do this perfectly, but we can pray and ask God to show us whom He wants us to move toward and love, and then act accordingly.  Because God loved us first, we can love others and see the beauty of His design in all people, no matter what they look like or how they act. As parents, we can teach our children to see all people the way God sees them with compassion, love and tenderness. Not just to create a kinder world (though that’s a good thing) but, more importantly, to reflect the heart of God welcoming others just as Christ welcomed us, to the glory of God. (Romans 15:7)

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12829811/Survivors-Nova-Festival-massacre-saw-woman-mutilated-Hamas-terrorist-shot-head-raping-harrowing-accounts-sexual-violence-October-7-attacks-released.html

Full horror of Hamas festival massacre is revealed - Survivors describe gang rape and mutilations, with the terrorists deriving sick pleasure from targeting men and women's genitals: 'They had a thing for sexual organs, breast amputation'

By Eirian Jane Prosser and Chris Jewers

Published: 01:41, 6 December 2023 | Updated: 10:58, 6 December 2023

Survivors of the Hamas festival massacre have recounted incidents of gang rape, torture, mutilations and the targeting of both men and women's genitals in shocking witness testimony that further reveals the horror of the October 7 attack on Israel.  One witness told Israeli police that they saw a woman mutilated by Hamas gunmen before a terrorist shot her in the head during a gang rape.  Others described hearing the screams of women as they were attacked, as well as seeing the gunmen amputate breasts and toss them to the side of the road.  Several people involved in the collecting and identifying of the bodies found in the aftermath have also recounted harrowing evidence of torture and murder to officials, describing how festivalgoers' genitals were shot, and how elsewhere they found victims murdered, tied to beds, and their genitals mutilated with knives.  While few victims of the atrocities are thought to have survived the attack, a selection of these recorded eyewitness accounts have been released by Israeli police, and seen by several news organisations.  Meanwhile, some of the few that did survive the attack are said to have been left suicidal, struggling to come to terms with what they saw.  With the release of the testimonies, Israel is calling on the international community to recognise Hamas's October 7 attack as a crime against humanity, with one senior official investigating sexual violence saying the terrorists came across the border from Gaza with a 'clear order' to use 'rape as genocide.'  One woman at the horrific scene said: 'There was one body of a woman that had a blood stain on her genitals, at first I thought she might have had a mishap out of fear. When we picked her up we knew for sure that it was blood.'

Another told officers in a recorded clip: 'Mainly there were a lot of gunshot wounds, also targeted shooting in the male genital area and we saw that a lot. They had a thing with sexual organs, both for women and men.  The women we received, they were civilians, we mainly saw either breast amputation or shooting just to the breast, simply shooting from one side of the breast to the other.  They were conscious when they got to us. For the men it was their genitalia, shooting genitals, they had a thing with that, or amputation.'

In one of the horrific statements recorded on video, a witness known only as Witness S described seeing a female victim being passed from one attacker to another as they raped her, while she 'bled from her back'.  The terror group went on to 'cut her breasts' before 'throwing it onto the road' and 'playing with it', the witness recalled.

She continues to say the victim was passed to another man in uniform.  'He penetrated her, and shot her in the head before he finished,' she said, according to the BBC who saw the video testimony. 'He didn't even pick up his pants; he shoots and ejaculates.'

The woman in the video described watching the militants as she pretended to be dead. 'I couldn't understand what I saw,' she said.

Another man who was at the festival as the bloody incursion unfolded, told the BBC he could hear the 'noises and screams of people being murdered, raped, decapitated'.

When asked by the broadcaster how he could be sure that the screams he heard indicated a sexual assault, he said he believed when listening at the time that the shouts could only have been as a result of rape.  In a statement the same man made through a support organisation, he described the attack carried out by the Hamas terror group as 'inhuman'.  'Some women were raped before they were dead, some raped while injured, and some were already dead when the terrorists raped their lifeless bodies,' his statement says. 'I desperately wanted to help, but there was nothing I could do.' 

Another witness, Ron Freger, fled the music festival when Hamas attacked and said he heard women screaming for help.  'I was lying in a pit and I hard a girl yelling 'they're raping me, they're raping me', he told Associated Press.

Several minutes later, he heard gunshots close by and she fell silent, he said.  'The feeling in that moment is one of complete powerlessness. I'm lying in this hole and I have no ability to do anything,' the 23-year-old explained.  I have no weapon, I have nothing, I'm surrounded by other people who are hiding with me and we're completely powerless.' 

Israel's Women's Empowerment Minister May Golan told the BBC that very few victims of rape or sexual assault had survived the attacks. Those that did are undergoing psychiatric treatment.  'But very, very few (survived). The majority were brutally murdered,' she said. 'They aren't able to talk not with me, and not to anyone from the government [or] from the media.'

Such accounts given to media organisations, along with the first assessments by an Israeli rights group, show that sexual assault was part of an atrocities-filled rampage by Hamas and other Gaza militants who killed about 1,200 people, most of them civilians, and took more than 240 hostages that day.  Two months after the Hamas attacks on the music festival, farming communities and army posts across southern Israel and close to Gaza, police are still struggling to put together the pieces.   In the immediate aftermath of the attack, priority was given to identifying bodies and not preserving evidence, making the investigation more challenging.  Now Israeli police say they are combing through 60,000 videos seized from the body cameras of Hamas gunmen. Footage from social media and security cameras will also be looked at in a bid to bring the perpetrators to justice. It has been hard to find rape survivors, however, as many were killed by their attackers.  But police say they now have 'multiple' eye-witness accounts of sexual assault.  They have not said exactly how many, and are yet to interview any of the surviving victims of the attacks.  In videos released by Israel that were recorded by Hamas gunmen on October 7, one woman who was handcuffed and taken hostages by the terrorists can be seen handcuffed with a large patch of blood staining the seat of her trousers.  Other women carried away by Hamas appear naked or semi-clothed.  Multiple photographs taken by those who arrived in the aftermath show the bodies of women, naked from the waist down, the BBC reports. Some have ripped underwear, legs splayed, with signs of trauma to their genitals and legs.  Dr Cochav Elkayam-Levy, a legal expert at the Davis Institute of International Relations at Hebrew University, told the British broadcaster that it looked as if Hamas had learned how to 'weaponise women's bodies from ISIS'.  Minister May Golan said she had spoken to at least three girls who were hospitalised, and in a 'very hard psychiatric situation because of the rapes they watched.'

Israel's police chief Yaacov Shabtai echoed her comments, saying many survivors of the attacks were finding it difficult to come to terms with what they had seen.  Some are understood to be suicidal. One person working with the teams supporting the survivors told the BBC some had already killed themselves.  A serving soldier, who only used her first name Avigayil, spoke of how it was difficult to define how many victims were sexually assaulted during the attacks.  The soldier told the BBC: 'I've dealt with more than a few burned bodies and I have no idea what they went through beforehand.  'And bodies that are missing the bottom half I also don't know if they were raped. But women that were clearly raped? There are enough. More than enough.'

In another testimony, a combat medic told the Associated Press that he came across half a dozen bodies of women and men with possible signs of sexual assault when he reached one of the attacked communities.  One girl had been shot in the head and was lying on the floor, her legs open and pants pulled down, with what looked like semen on her lower back, said the medic who spoke on condition of anonymity because his unit was classified.  Other bodies had bleeding around the groin with limbs at distorted angles, he said.  One of the people tasked with collecting bodies from the attack sites while working with the Zaka religious volunteer organisations told the BBC that they saw signs of torture and mutilation which, he said, included a pregnant woman whose womb had been ripped open before she was killed.  The Zaka group and other volunteer organisations that handled bodies at the scene and once they arrived at the Shura army base for identification have provided much of the evidence. The BBC said it had been unable to verify the Zaka volunteer's account, and pointed out that Israeli media reports have questioned some of the testimony of volunteers who worked in the aftermath of the attack.  Another, Nachman Dyksztejna, provided written testimony detailing how he saw the bodies of two women in kibbutz Be'eri with their hands and legs tied to the bed.  'One was sexually terrorised with a knife stuck in her vagina and all her internal organs removed,' his statement says, according to the BBC.

A civil commission headed by Dr Elkayam-Levy, which has been tasked with collecting evidence and testimony of sexual crimes, is calling on the international community to recognise the October 7 attacks as being systematic abuse, constituting Crimes Against Humanity.  We see definite patterns,' she told the BBC in an interview. 'So it wasn't incidental, it wasn't random. They came with a clear order. It was […] rape as genocide.'   The has also IDF claimed that Hamas terrorists shot female Israeli soldiers 'in the crotch, intimate parts and breasts' as part of a 'systematic genital mutilation'.

Army reservist Shari Mendes said many bodies of female victims from October 7, both civilian and soldiers, arrived 'in bloody shredded rags or just in underwear'.

The soldier who had been working at Shura Army Base in central Israel where bodies were being identified was speaking at a UN event in New York on Monday titled 'Hear Our Voices: Sexual and Gender-Based Violence in the October 7 Hamas terror attack'.

She said: 'Our team commander saw several female soldiers who were shot in the crotch, intimate parts, vagina, or shot in the breast.  This seemed to be a systematic genital mutilation of a group of victims.  These women arrived with their eyes opened, their mouths in grimaces, their fists clenched,' she added.

'The soldiers that we dealt with had expressions of agony on their faces still.  I remember one young woman whose arm was broken in so many places it was difficult for us to lay her arm in the burial shroud, her leg too.  In her case the entire left side of her body was shredded, torn apart, most likely by a grenade.'

Hours after the video footage of the most recent testimonies were released, US President Joe Biden spoke of how women had been repeatedly raped and mutilated at the music festival.  Speaking in Boston last night he said: 'Reports of women raped repeatedly raped and their bodies being mutilated while still alive, of women's corpses being desecrated, Hamas terrorists inflicting as much pain and suffering on women and girls as possible and then murdering them. It is appalling.'

While investigators are still trying to determine the scope of the sexual assaults, Israel's government has accused the international community particularly the United Nations of ignoring the pain of Israeli victims.  While investigators are still trying to determine the scope of the sexual assaults, Israel's government has accused the international community particularly the United Nations of ignoring the pain of Israeli victims.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: December 03, 2023, 02:43:21 PM »
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God’s Comfort for Our Father Wounds
March 7, 2023
by Kia Stephens

“The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

My relationship with my father always seemed to be a work in progress, but I was still excited to see him.  Whenever my little family of four took a road trip to my home state, spending time with my father was always on the itinerary. With each visit, I had high hopes that we would grow closer, know one another better, and build the father-daughter relationship I longed for.  On one visit in the heat of summer, I wore my natural hair in an Afro puff. This was my summer go-to style: a quick solution for my tightly coiled strands in the Texas humidity. I thought I was looking good until my father, oblivious to the impact of his words, said, “When are you going to get your hair done?”

I had so many internal responses swirling around in my brain. What?

Why is my hair important?

I’ve traveled more than 800 miles to spend time with you, and you’re concerned about my hair!  It wasn’t just the words he said but the words I had never heard him say that magnified the moment. I was a 30-something-year-old woman, and there were things he had never said to me:

“You are beautiful.”

“You are special.”

“You are loved.”

That day, his words were a reminder of the chasm that existed between us. He did not understand me, nor did I understand him. We were like strangers meeting for the first time. His words exasperated the reality that I had father wounds, and my heart was broken all over again.  What do we do when our hearts are damaged in the same place, by the same person, multiple times?

How are we supposed to heal?

Whereas curling up in the fetal position and licking our wounds may sound like a good idea, I’m grateful God has provided encouragement we can glean from the pages of Scripture.  Psalm 34:18 says, “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

These were David’s words at a time when he was on the run from King Saul. After David defeated Goliath, he was given a high rank in the army. Eventually, Saul became jealous of David’s military success and attempted to kill him on numerous occasions.  I imagine this experience was very painful for David. He may have questioned why this was happening to him. He may have wondered what he did to deserve the betrayal of Saul, his king someone David held in high regard.  When David penned the words of Psalm 34, he was deeply acquainted with overwhelming sorrow. He understood what it meant to have his heart broken into pieces and his spirit crushed.  David’s truthful, encouraging psalm is applicable to every person who has ever been enveloped by the weight of a broken heart. God is near He is not far off, aloof or somewhere in the distance, unconcerned with our pain. When we feel alone and isolated, God’s presence is close to us.  Not only is God near, but He also saves us. This salvation is not limited to our soul's iniquities but also encompasses our heart's prolonged pain. God saves every place where our spirits are seemingly crushed beyond repair.  God’s salvation includes our minds, wills and emotions. He saves every part of us. When our hearts are broken and our spirits are crushed, God is our deliverer. This has been true for me, and it is also true for you.  I never told my dad how his words impacted me on that summer day. If he knew, he would be devastated because that was not his intention. I simply nursed my wounds across three states and clung tightly to the broken pieces of my heart. Over time, God met me in my painful place, just like He met David. He put the broken pieces of my heart back together.  Friend, the most beautiful part is that the Lord’s nearness and salvation are ongoing. Every time our heart is broken or our spirit is crushed, we can bring all our broken pieces to Him, knowing He is near and able to save.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: December 01, 2023, 11:36:56 AM »
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Inviting God Into Our Pain
March 2, 2023
by Lysa TerKeurst

“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.” James 4:8a (ESV)

In a recent season of my life, I felt like the heartbreak I was experiencing was going to break me.  The pain hit me with such sudden and sharp force that it felt like it cut through skin and bone. And it left me wondering if I’d ever be able to function like a normal person again.  Through that season, and even now, God has been tenderly reminding me that pain itself is not the enemy. Pain is the indicator that brokenness exists.  Pain is the reminder that the real enemy is trying to take us out and bring us down by keeping us stuck in broken places. If we can grasp God’s perspective, pain can be the gift that motivates us to fight with tenacity and fierce determination, knowing there’s healing on the other side.  And in the in-between?

In that desperate place where we aren’t quite on the other side of it all and our heart still feels quite raw?

Even still, pain is an invitation for God to move in and replace our faltering strength with His power.  Now, I’m not writing this to throw out spiritual platitudes that sound good; I write it from the depth of a heart that knows it’s the only way. We must invite God into our pain to help us survive the desperate in-between.  The only other choice is to run from the pain by using some method of numbing. But numbing the pain with food, achievements, drugs, alcohol or scrolling on social media never goes to the source of the real issue to make us healthier. It only silences our screaming need for help.  We think we’re freeing ourselves from the pain when, in reality, what numbs us imprisons us. If we avoid the hurt, the hurt creates a void in us. It slowly kills the potential for our hearts to fully feel, fully connect, fully love again. It even steals the best in our relationship with God.  Pain is the sensation that indicates a transformation is needed. There’s a weakness where new strength needs to enter. And we must choose to pursue long-term strength rather than temporary relief.  So how do we get this new strength?

When the deepest parts of us scream for some relief, how do we stop ourselves from chasing what will numb us?

How do we stop the piercing pain of this minute, this hour?

We invite God’s closeness.  For me, during this painful season of my life, this meant praying constantly. No matter how vast our pit of despair, prayer is big enough to fill us with the realization of His presence like nothing else does.  Our key verse today (James 4:8a) reminds us that when we draw near to God, He will draw near to us. When we invite Him to come close, He always accepts our invitation.  And on the days when my heart feels hurt and my words feel quite flat, I let Scripture guide my prayers recording His Word in my journal and then adding my own personal thoughts.  No matter where you are today knee-deep in heartbreak, taking steps of healing or in the desperate in-between today is a great day to invite God to come closer.  One of my personal favorite Bible passages to turn to is Psalm 91. I would love to share a verse and a prayer with you as an example for how you can prayerfully invite God into your own pain:

Verse: “Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1, NIV).

Prayer: Lord, draw me close. Your Word promises when I draw close to You, You are there. I want my “drawing close” to be a permanent dwelling place. I am not alone because You are with me. I am not weak because Your strength is infused in me. I am not empty because I’m drinking daily from Your fullness. You are my dwelling place. And in You, I have shelter from every stormy circumstance and harsh reality. I’m not pretending the hard things don’t exist, but I am rejoicing in the fact that Your covering protects me and prevents those hard things from affecting me like they used to. You, the Most High, have the final say over me. You know me and love me intimately. And today I declare I will trust You in the midst of my pain. You are my everyday dwelling place, my saving grace. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Friend, even if you only have a few moments to draw near to God through prayer today, I promise you’ll end up feeling a lot less desperate and a lot more whole. If we let Him enter into the darkness of our hurt today, He will open wide the door to a much brighter tomorrow.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: December 01, 2023, 11:31:10 AM »
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8 Ways the Holy Spirit Helps When Marriage Is Painful
March 1, 2023
by Dannah Gresh

"Nevertheless, I tell you the truth: it is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you." John 16:7 (ESV)

Has your marriage ever been in a place where you barely knew how to pray?

Mine has.  My husband’s fierce battle with lust and pornography once knocked me to my knees. At times, the only prayer that formed on my lips was, Lord, help!  And He did. God has written a redemption story in the marriage of Bob and Dannah Gresh that I could never have dreamed of. We worked hard, of course. And we used many tools to help us work through what we were walking through, including clinically informed and biblically grounded therapists, godly friends, support groups, and the slow passage of time. But nothing and no one helped me more than the precious Holy Spirit.  Have you experienced His power?

Jesus said this about the Spirit: “Nevertheless, I tell you the truth: it is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you” (John 16:7).

Jesus had close friends and followers when He walked on this earth. Perhaps no one other than His mother would have felt the acute pain of His departure more than these individuals. But our Savior told them it was to their advantage that He would leave them.  How?

Because after Jesus went away, He sent the Helper the Holy Spirit.  And think about this: With intention and purpose, God chose when you would be born. (Jeremiah 1:5; Psalm 139:15-16) He placed you and me onto the planet during this time, ever so short in the scheme of things, when it is to our “advantage” that Jesus is not here in the flesh. We get to experience the goodness and help of the Holy Spirit!  During my time of pain, I pulled together some scriptures to give me understanding of how the Holy Spirit provides support no matter our need. I then considered how these truths applied to a wife when her marriage was painful. As I kept my eyes open to see Him at work, I experienced eight ways the Spirit helps us through marriage trauma.

1.  He comes alongside us to advocate for us. (John 14:26, NIV; John 15:26, NIV)
2.  He intercedes for us when we run out of words to pray for ourselves. (Romans 8:26)
3.  He opens our minds to understand the Scriptures, something we may need a lot of help with when our brains are hijacked by trauma. (John 14:26; Ephesians 1:17-18)
4.  He helps us experience freedom from anything that holds us in bondage, including fear, bitterness or hypervigilance. (2 Corinthians 3:17)
5.  He leads us into Truth, helping us bypass all the confusing lies. (John 16:13)
5.  He works to lead us and make us more like Jesus in everything we do rather than reacting to our husbands out of our emotion and fear. (Romans 8:14-16)
6.  He sweetly convicts us and our husbands of sin so we can confess and find freedom. (John 16:8)
7.  He helps us, our husbands, and others in the body of Christ to experience unity of heart and mind. (Acts 4:31-32)

The Spirit’s help makes all the difference when your body and soul need some extra care because your heart is in trauma. Call upon Him. The Spirit is able to help you as you seek redemption and healing in your marriage.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: November 30, 2023, 06:26:43 PM »
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God Will Hold You
February 28, 2023
by Tracie Braylock

“For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.” Isaiah‬ 41‬:13‬ (NIV)‬‬

She came into the hospital for a major operation that involved multiple surgeons and skill sets. When I entered her room, she was alone, yet she seemed so calm and at ease.  As the operating-room nurse who would care for her during her surgery, I grabbed her hand, and she smiled up at me from the stretcher. Maybe it was a strong desire for relief that made her appear undisturbed about what was to come, or maybe she was this serene every day, but I found myself in awe of her bravery.  This woman was from another country, and we could not speak each other’s languages. What she was facing was very serious, and she was surrounded by people she couldn't even communicate with.  Later, as I watched her complicated operation unfold, I knew that even if we had spoken the same language, there were no words I could have offered her. All I could do was hold her hand and pray.  My friend, you might be struggling right now with what appears to be a monumental obstacle. It might seem like no matter how many people you’ve encountered, no one can even offer up words to guide you through. You may feel like you alone are face to face with your pain.  But I want to remind you of what Isaiah 41:13 says: “For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”

In the midst of your struggle and suffering, remember God is with you. He is holding your hand and reminding you not to fear. He will indeed help you.  You are not alone in this life or your situation. And even when it seems like there’s no one around who you can communicate with, no one who understands what you’re going through, God is with you. He cares, and He understands.  No diagnosis, divorce, disappointment or defeat is too big for Him to handle, so “let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need” (Hebrews 4:16, NIV).

We can surrender our burdens, our stress and our worry to God today.  And after we’ve made it through these life-altering situations, looking on with awe at all we’ve survived, we can be sure to give God the glory for all He’s held us through.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: November 30, 2023, 06:23:31 PM »
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Experiencing the Calm You Crave
February 27, 2023
by Karen Ehman

“Say to him: Calm down and be quiet. Don’t be afraid or cowardly because of these two smoldering sticks, the fierce anger of Rezin and Aram, and the son of Remaliah.” Isaiah 7:4 (CSB)

It’s that phone call in the middle of the night as the parent of a rebellious teen.  Or it’s the loss of a close friendship over a misunderstanding.  Maybe it is the sudden sickness of an aging parent or a criticism from your co-worker delivered unexpectedly at work.  So many moments in time can threaten to steal our peace of mind and cause worry to seep into our souls.  On those days when I start to fret, I’d like to say that I quickly “put my Jesus on,” taking my worries to the Lord in prayer. But if I’m being honest, the first thing I typically think about doing is chatting about it with my husband or a friend. I’m always certain they will give me some great advice that will help to calm my fears.  But the words of counsel from those at the top of my contacts list aren’t the only reason I want to pick up the phone to call them.  It also has to do with my own words. You see, when I start to feel worry welling up in my heart, my lips want a piece of the action. I just can’t seem to stop talking about my troubles at hand! And sometimes my talking turns into complaining.  It can be healthy to talk about what weighs us down, especially with a godly friend, spouse or counselor, as it allows us to see all sides of a situation and process our emotions. However, complaints and gossip are counterproductive. (James 5:9)  In the seventh chapter of Isaiah, we happen upon the Old Testament prophet Isaiah conveying a message from God to King Ahaz regarding a troubling situation in Israel. Thankfully, Isaiah's message was one of reassurance. Even though the two invading kings, Rezin and Aram “smoldering sticks” were threatening, ultimately they would not prevail (Isaiah 7:4).  God spoke to Isaiah in today’s key verse:  “Say to him: Calm down and be quiet. Don’t be afraid or cowardly because of these two smoldering sticks, the fierce anger of Rezin and Aram, and the son of Remaliah” (Isaiah 7:4).

Isaiah’s script for the little pep talk began with this five-word directive: “Calm down and be quiet” (Isaiah 7:4a).

The original Hebrew word shamar used in this verse means “to be careful, to watch, to take note and to wait” (or “calm down”). And the meaning of the Hebrew word shaqat, translated “be quiet,” means “to refrain from making noise, to be peaceful, pacified, to be at rest, or to be undisturbed.”

When facing trying times, our hearts and minds don’t naturally go to a place of peaceful rest. We aren’t elated to watch and wait. And our souls are far from undisturbed.  But this passage isn’t saying these feelings and actions are our initial and innate response. Far from it. They are thoughts and actions we must purposefully pursue. When we determine to center our minds on God rather than on the problem at hand, we can experience the calm He offers us. When we fix our eyes on God and watch Him work, the Lord will help us not to be shaken or unsettled.  Next, Isaiah was to deliver a second five-word sermon: “Don’t be afraid or cowardly …” (Isaiah 7:4b).

While the Hebrew equivalent of “afraid” has the same meaning as our English word, the Hebrew word for “cowardly” (rakak) is more nuanced. This verb refers to growing soft, weak or fainthearted.  When the worries and cares of life begin to make us fear weakening our resolve and causing us to be faint of heart may we remember this ancient advice from God to the king: to calm down and be quiet. It worked for King Ahaz, and it can benefit us today.  Instead of making noise with our mouths by grumbling to a friend to try to solve our problems, let’s decide we will honor God in our conversations. And we will look to the Lord to find rest and discover His peace. Only when we do that will we finally find our hearts undisturbed.  Let’s bend our knees in prayer before grabbing the phone, taking our cares to King Jesus first.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: November 28, 2023, 04:06:13 PM »
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How Can I Really Live a Life That Pleases God?
February 23, 2023
by Lysa TerKeurst

"His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence ..." 2 Peter 1:3 (ESV)

When my kids were growing up, we spent a week each summer at a camp tucked in the Adirondack Mountains. It was an amazing getaway.  Nature erupts with untarnished beauty in those mountains and begs to be explored. So one year, when my exercise-loving friends, with whom we vacationed, suggested we join them for a moderate hike, we agreed.  It didn't take long for me to discover that their definition of the word “moderate” and mine didn't come from the same dictionary. I pictured a path with a gentle, winding, upward slope. What we actually hiked involved a full-on upward scaling of rocks and roots.  I pushed. I pulled. I strained. I huffed and puffed. And I might have even spent a few minutes pouting.  Going up against the pull of gravity was hard. Really, really hard. But coming down was a completely different experience. We navigated the same rocks and roots without feeling nearly as stressed. I actually even enjoyed the journey as I noticed more of the beautiful surroundings.  Though we took the exact same path both directions, going with the flow of gravity made the journey so much better. And about halfway down the trail, it occurred to me how similar this hike was to the Christian walk. We can either walk in the flow of God's power or out of it.  Scripture leaves no doubt that our God is a God of great power. This fact is made clear throughout the New Testament in passages like Luke 1:35, where we read that God's power overshadowed the young virgin Mary and allowed her to carry Jesus. Mark 14:62 proclaims that the resurrected Jesus now sits “at the right hand of Power” (ESV). And Romans 1:20 declares that creation itself makes God's power undeniable.  How incredible it is, then, to read in 2 Peter 1:3 that “His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence …”

God’s divine power is available to us. To you and me. Right now, through the knowledge of His Son, Jesus Christ. It is in Jesus that we find everything we need to live a godly life.  Of course, I realize godliness in the midst of a world overflowing with sin, pain and corruption may feel like a daunting and impossible feat. That's why I'm so thankful Peter lets us know that godliness in the midst of great darkness is possible. Because of Jesus, we can escape “the corruption that is in the world” (2 Peter 1:4, ESV).

Jesus is our source of life and godliness.  We don't have to fight an uphill battle on our own to live good and pure lives. We don't have to exhaust ourselves as we try to muster up as much goodness as we possibly can. The Christian life has never been about what we can do in our own power. It's about fully stepping into the grace-filled flow of His power. This, friends, is what it really looks like to cooperate with the Holy Spirit.  Do you feel exhausted from trying to be good enough?

Does living a life that is pleasing to God feel impossibly hard?

Well, I have good news for you today. Jesus never once says, “Perform for Me to save yourself.”

Instead, He tenderly whispers, “Draw near to Me.” (James 4:8)

He wants us to learn from Him. He wants us to discover who He is and all that we have in Him. He wants us to cling to the precious promises He has given us and receive from Him all we need to live for Him today.

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: November 28, 2023, 04:01:04 PM »
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Stringing the Pearls of Your Beautiful Story
February 22, 2023
by Beth Moore

“… the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking beautiful pearls, who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had and bought it.” Matthew 13:45-46 (NKJV)

The most precious keepsake in my jewelry drawer is a string of my mother’s pearls. They were a gift to her from my father in the second decade of their marriage.  Imagining her wide-eyed, opening a fancy box and finding a string of real pearls inside, always makes me smile. For one thing, it was the only piece of jewelry she owned, besides a humble wedding ring, that wasn’t costume jewelry. For a second thing, my parents had a rocky marriage, and I cherish hints of happy seasons.  The clasp on the necklace is old and weak, so I’m too afraid to wear the pearls. Still, I hold them often, rolling them with my fingertips, and think of my mom. And her mom. And my daughters. And my daughter’s daughters. All of us women who’ve longed to find beautiful lives even after fairy tales proved fraudulent.  The pearls are yellowed now, perhaps from age, but I smile as I wonder if a blend of cigarette smoke, cologne and Clairol hair color might have contributed. Life has a way of rubbing off on our pearls, doesn’t it?

I’ve spent the last year or so looking back over my life. A common inclination of those who reach that famous age benchmark of 65 suggests wrongly, I believe that it’s all downhill from here. But I savor life and relationships more than ever and find myself more secure and at deeper peace.  The words of Scripture are so dear to me after all the years of looking to God through them that I often can’t read my Bible without tears welling up. My soul still teems with life and purpose, but let’s admit I’m at a fine age for praying Psalm 90:12: “… teach us to number our days, That we may gain a heart of wisdom” (NKJV).

As I looked back over the past year, I drew a timeline from my birthdate to the present. I placed bold dots where the most life-shaping events or seasons of my journey took place whether positive or negative and labeled them. Until now, I’d been reluctant to take a sequential look back because, in my thinking, it had all been such a jumbled mess. Too much pain and failure. Too much sin and defeat. Too many tears and regrets.  But an uncanny thing became clear to me: how often something wonderfully providential came next to something wildly painful. So many hard things have happened, but goodness and mercy have indeed followed me all the days of my life. (Psalm 23:6)  That timeline became a string to me, and those dots became pearls. I realized that each element bad or good had caused the “one pearl of great price,” as God’s Kingdom is called in Matthew 13:46, to increase in value to me.  “The kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking beautiful pearls, who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had and bought it.” (Matthew 13:45-46)

Have you, like me, needed Jesus so badly?

Looking back, was He there for you, even if you see Him only in hindsight?

Did those life-shaping things ultimately increase, in your eyes, the surpassing value of the one thing no one can take from you?

Then, lo and behold, you did find a beautiful life, one that will only increase in worth with time and trust. Faith is the clasp on your string of pearls. Faith in Christ and His power to redeem your life will keep those pearls from getting lost.

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I still believe he was guilty.

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Fun, Games And Silliness / The Jumper
« on: November 24, 2023, 01:27:03 PM »
I was walking across a bridge one day, and I saw a man standing on the edge, about to jump off.  I immediately ran over and said "Stop!  Don't do it!"

"Why shouldn't I?" he said.

I said, "Well, there's so much to live for!"

"Like what?"

"Well...are you religious or atheist?"

"Religious."

"Me too!  Are you Catholic or Protestant?"

"Protestant."

"Me too!  Are you Episcopalian or Baptist?"

"Baptist."

"Wow!  Me too!  Are you Baptist Church of God or Baptist Church of the Lord?"

"Baptist Church of God."

"Me too!  Are you Original Baptist Church of God, or are you Reformed Baptist Church of God?"

"Reformed Baptist Church of God."

"Me too!  Are you Reformed Baptist Church of God, reformation of 1879, or Reformed Baptist Church of God, reformation of 1915?"

"Reformed Baptist Church of God, reformation of 1915!"

To which I said, "Die, heretic scum!" and pushed him off.

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Fun, Games And Silliness / The car
« on: November 24, 2023, 01:25:05 PM »
A guy was on the side of the road hitchhiking on a very dark night and in the middle of a storm. The night was rolling on and no car went by. The storm was so strong he could hardly see a few feet ahead of him.  Suddenly he saw a car coming toward him and stop.  Without thinking about it, the guy got into the back seat, closed the door and then realized there was nobody behind the wheel! The car starts slowly; the guy looks at the road and sees a curve coming his way. Scared, he starts to pray begging for his life.  He hasn't come out of shock, when just before he hits the curve, a hand appears through the window and moves the wheel. The guy, paralyzed in terror, watched how the hand appears every time right before a curve.  Gathering his strength, the guy jumps out of the car and runs to the nearest town. Wet and in shock, he goes to a restaurant and starts telling everybody about the horrible experience he went through.  A silence enveloped everybody when they realize the guy was serious.  About half an hour later, two guys walked in the same restaurant. They looked around for a table when one said to the other, "Look John, that's the dummy who got in the car when we were pushing it."

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: November 21, 2023, 06:49:03 PM »
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The Confidence To Believe You Belong
February 17, 2023
by Brenda Bradford Ottinger

“You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered!” Psalm 139:16-17 (NLT)

It was my first day at a new school midyear, in a place where everyone knew each other and no one knew me.  Naive and 9 years old, I had yet to understand the insecurity that clothed my spirit.  From my first timid step off the school bus that day till the final bell rang after class, I wore a long red coat totally extra for the wink of winter a southern U.S. season contains.  Walking unfamiliar halls as the new girl wearing a bulky red coat, indoors and out, can set you apart in a way that doesn’t serve your social life well; I don’t recommend it. Yet my antsy insecurity found comfort in my cocoon of a coat that day.  Despite the awkward start, eventually I lost my timidity in that new school, but never would I lose the insecurity that gripped my spirit. Long have I lacked an innate confidence to believe I belong.  As the years grew, I sensed God working in my life and trusted He had plans for me. Yet I still struggled to confidently enter any space believing I was enough to belong.  This mistaken mindset began to shed its grip on me, however, when God met me in the center of my insecurity one day and traded new life for old lies.  That day, as I attempted to skim over a familiar Bible passage, the Lord prompted me to linger with the words rather than rush past them, and I read these truths afresh:  “You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered!” (Psalm 139:16-17).

And in the quiet of that moment, I felt a freedom I hadn’t known before, as the truth of God’s eternal heart for me covered my spirit with a comfort like no other.  In this passage, David declared to God, “You saw me before I was born,” recognizing that before he’d ever spied a ray of light or cried a breath of life, his very person was intimately known by God.

This is our confidence: Before we had an earthly identity, God regarded us!  Before oxygen filled our lungs, the Lord laid out every moment of our lives according to His purpose. God hasn’t simply recorded the hours we’ve already spent; rather, from the second He sketched our identities to the futures we’ve yet to reach, He has borne witness to it all.  We can confidently believe we belong anywhere He places us because the Ancient of Days, our eternal God, has made it His business to know and adore us and to tenderly record His trustworthy plans for us.  May we reject the enemy’s lie that we’re not enough to belong, for our confidence is grounded in God’s authority as we walk together with Him into every space He’s already prepared for us.  No earthly brand of belonging can compare to the belonging we have in God.  Dear friend, the God who saw you ahead of your birth whose precious thoughts about you are greater than numbers can contain recorded purpose for you long before your life existed in time!  You can shed every lie of insecurity that drapes your spirit today and walk confidently in the truth that your story is already sealed in God’s book. You are a woman precious to your Maker, and you belong where He places you, for you enter with the authority of His divine script.

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