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Fun, Games And Silliness / Pets
« on: April 20, 2024, 10:38:44 AM »
A little boy took his dog on a "take your pet to school" day. There were prizes for the smallest, the prettiest, the cutest, and the smartest pet.  Determined that his dog win a prize, the boy put his pet through a whole series of tricks. Finally the boy turned to the dog and asked, "Mindy, how much is two plus two minus four?"

The dog sat quietly, making no sound, remaining still and silent.  "Right!" exclaimed the boy.

His dog won first prize.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13330347/Max-Azzarello-dead-fire-Trump-trial-NYC.html

Max Azzarello DIES just hours after setting himself on fire while protesting outside Trump's hush money trial in NYC as friends reveal the heartbreaking moment that triggered his spiral into self-destruction

    Protester Max Azzarello has died after setting himself ablaze in Manhattan Friday
    The 37-year-old doused himself in accelerant before igniting himself with a light
    Flames engulfed the conspiracy theorist, who has now succumbed to his injuries

By Alex Hammer For Dailymail.Com

Published: 04:51, 20 April 2024 | Updated: 07:46, 20 April 2024

The man who set himself on fire outside Trump's hush money trial in New York has died from his injuries, as his friends and neighbors said it was the death of his mother two years ago that made him increasingly unstable.  Max Azzarello, a 37-year-old from St. Augustine, Florida, died Friday night hours after the shocking display, said to be 'an 'extreme act of protest [against] a totalitarian con, and our own government' on his own Substack.  The Florida native was a graduate from Rutgers University, where he received a master’s degree in city and regional planning in 2012, friends said.  He was rushed to a nearby hospital’s burn unit where died just before 11 pm, sources familiar with the matter added Friday night hours after was seen throwing a stack of pamphlets that included a link to his conspiracy-laden Substack seconds before igniting.  In interviews carried out within that span, several who knew Azzarello described a different sort of man from the one responsible for a slew of rambling, paranoid posts plastered throughout his social media.  'He was super curious about social justice and the way things "could" be,' fellow Rutgers alum Katie Brennan told the New York Times Friday of the self-professed 'investigative researcher.  He was creative and adventurous.'

An friend from high school, Steven Waldman, remembered Azzarello who had a job in marketing, sales, and tech before becoming unemployed at some point in 2021 or 2022 as one of the smartest people he knew.  'He was a good friend and person and cared about the world,' he told the publication.

Both talked up the confirmed conspiracy theorist has decidedly normal, as did his neighbors in historic St. Augustine, where he lived in a small apartment near the Matanzas River.  '[He was] an extremely nice person,' recalled the property manager of his apartment building, Larry Altman.  He went on to add: 'He had political views that I would not consider mainstream.  He called our government and the world government a Ponzi scheme,' Altman remembered, before disclaiming those views were hardly a cause for concern.

'If you met Max, he’d shake your hand, and you’d have a nice conversation,' he told The Times. 'He’d treat you with respect.'

His oldest friends were left even more surprised by his sudden act, with Carol Waldman, the mom of his childhood friend, recalling: 'He was kind and a gentle soul.  A real wonderful, terrific young guy. Who had his whole life ahead of him.'

But things quickly changed after the death of his mother, Elizabeth Azzarello, on April 6, 2022 almost two years to the day before his self-immolation.  After the loss spurred by a bout with pulmonary disease  his friends in St Augustine said they saw a change, one that culminated with Azzarello secretly traveling to New York City at some point this year, without his family's knowledge.  'That was around the time when he became more outspoken,' Waldman said of this period, referring to the last eight or so months of 2022.  They were close, and they had a good relationship. He was heartbroken.' he recalled.

By the next year, Azzarello and his writings after penning a beautifully worded memorial following his mother's death were almost unrecognizable.  'This extreme act of protest is to draw attention to an urgent and important discovery,' Azzarello wrote in part of his online manifesto, titled The Ponzi Papers.  We are victims of a totalitarian con, and our own government (along with many of their allies) is about to hit us with an apocalyptic fascist world coup.'

He added how this supposed regime 'is about to hit us with an apocalyptic facist world coup,' just months after a series of arrests in his home state for incidents that took place in August, including hurling a drink at a photo of Bill Clinton.

Oddly, the alleged research investigator is seen smiling in an undated photo with the Democrat seen on his still-up LinkedIn, where he wrote, 'we have a secret facist problem.'

In March 2023, he changed his profession on LinkedIn as 'Research Investigator,' self-employed, and in June reportedly tagged Brennan and others to make sure they had seen something he had written.  Speaking to The Times, she framed it as a 'manifesto', and remembered how she called him to intervene.  When that didn't work, she said she wrote to one of his relatives to make sure they were aware he was not in the right state of mind just over a year before he woudl set himself on fire as Trump's criminal trial entered its fourth day.  Eight months before this, though, Azzarello posted to Facebook to tell his online friends he had visited a mental health treatment facility, writing, 'Three days in the psych ward, and all I got were my new favorite socks.'

He was also spotted outside the courthouse both Thursday and Friday, where he reportedly told The New York Times, 'Trump's in on it.'

Trump is facing allegations he falsified business records related to payments made to ex-porn star Stormy Daniels.  Again framing himself as a 'research investigator', Azzarello told the paper his beliefs were influenced by research he had carried out into Peter Thiel, the venture capitalist whose seed money helped start firms like PayPal and Facebook.  Photographed holding a sign that read 'Trump is with Biden and they're about to facist coup us', he said: 'It's a secret kleptocracy, and it can only lead to an apocalyptic fascist coup.'

The day before, he reportedly held a sign critical of New York University before heading to the courthouse, while handing out literature on the subject.  On Friday, the self-employed 'investigative researcher' suddenly tossed a stack of pamphlets into the air that included links to his manifesto, seconds before suddenly setting himself ablaze.  After the self-immolation, cops descended on the area just before 2pm, after which he was brought to a nearby hospital’s burn unit. He died shortly before 11 pm, sources familiar with the matter confirmed.  In an article authored hours before he spewed unfounded theories about the 'elites', COVID, and Clinton, who appeared to have become a source of fascination for Azzarello over the years.  The post bore the startling succinct headline: 'I have set myself on fire outside of the Trump Trial', as other social media posts provided more insight into the college graduate's fragile state of mind.

DailyMail.com gained more insight after learning the activist just week ago completed a six month probation sentence - handed out following a string of incidents in Florida involving either disorderly conduct, destruction of property, and overall erratic, 'rambling' behavior.  DailyMail.com obtained criminal complaints for each, which all place within a matter of days in August.  In the first of three, cops wrote how Azzarello threw a glass of wine at a framed and autographed photograph of President Clinton displayed in the lobby of the Casa Monica Hotel in his hometown of Saint Augustine the evening of August 19, 2023,  The complaint, which lists him as unemployed, notes the incident took place as Azzarello had just finished dinner at the hotel restaurant.  He went on to launch the glass at the image, breaking the glass on the framed photograph and damaging it with wine in the process.  Then, two days later, Azzarello was arrested again at the Case Monica, after he was reported for 'standing outside, stripping his clothes off and yelling at customers.'  When cops arrived, they noted how the suspect was 'wearing nothing but his underwear, standing on the sidewalk [, and] holing [sic] a speaker blasting music and yelling', officers wrote eight months ago.  The hotel manager, meanwhile, was said to have told officers that customers were 'scared for their safety', and that many were unable to enter or exit for fear of being caught up in the then-suspect's episode.  On August 24, he was arrested once more for graffitiing property and rifling through a woman's belongings in the flatbed of her truck, after allegedly being seen yelling in someone's yards after 'misinterpreting' an exterminator's sign warning people to keep their children and pets off a lawn that had just been treated.  Cops, at the time, wrote how the conspiracy theorist was convinced the pest control company was 'there to exterminate children and dogs', as all the events occurred within walking distance of Azzarello's apartment.  In a discovery that provided more insight into the man behind the incident, DailyMail.com found Azzarello had posted to Facebook earlier that month, this time to tell his friends that he had just spent three days in a psych ward.  'I was handcuffed, shoved, and put into a psych ward,' he wrote in the update, in which he described how cops suddenly showed up at his St Augustine pad necause he had tipped a Starbucks barista $200 and wrote 'Go F*** Yourself' on the receipt.

'I was given no information about why I was there until after my discharge,' he said, as another post a few weeks later indicated her served jail time for the alleged stunt.

Less than three months later, a suit he filed against Clinton and 100 other influential figures was tossed when he failed to follow up with required court filings, after claiming Mark Cuban, Richard Branson, the country of Saudi Arabia, and more were carrying 'an elaborate network of Ponzi schemes' dating back to the 1990s and continuing through 2023.  Other defendants named in the 2023 suit included 1992 Independent presidential candidate Ross Perot, who died in 2019.  The case filed by Azzarello without a lawyer was tossed this past October.  Then, in an Instagram story posted a little over nine weeks ago, Azzarello shared a picture of Taylor Swift donned in Super Woman apparel.  He wrote in the caption: 'Super Bowl LVII Forecast: 100% chance of broflakes melting down and whining across the nation.' 

Azzarello wrote: 'Why are we all so divided? Because the people who stole the American Dream are shouting 'You're divided! You're divided!' in all directions.'

In another post from this time period, Azzarello appeared to show support for the Eras performer, commenting on a photo of her flashing the peace sign while delivering a commencement speech at New York University.  'Still her best picture,' Azzarello wrote over the May 2022 image, held in front of the same school would go on to slam two months later days before setting himself ablaze.

'NYU is a mob front', the headline of literature being passed around by the activist in Lower Manhattan not far from the courthouse Wednesday read.  An accompanying tagline added that the pamphlet was 'a brief guide to[the school's] most criminal secrets.'  Reporters with the Times, meanwhile, confirmed the suspect was holding a sign on Wednesday critical of the school at Washington Square Park Wednesday, before moving on Thursday to the park where the incident occurred.  A link to his Ponzi Papers Substack was provided.  On Wednesday, he also posted an Instagram highlight saying he would be 'spending the week at Washington Square Park airing out all of NYU's dirty laundry', a day before a final Instagram story just minutes before the blaze.  'I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you,' it read.

At 1:37 pm, law enforcement responded to calls reporting the fire, before rushing Azzarello to a city hospital where he is said to be in critical condition.  The New York Police Department said an investigation is ongoing, as other recent social media posts show how Azzarello recently praised 'martyrs' like the former U.S. military member who also lit himself on fire, but died during protest.  'Heroes and martyrs, folks,' Azzarello posted on his Instagram after the February death of US Air Force Active Duty Member Aaron Bushnell, adding 'God f****** bless you, Aaron Bushnell.'

Bushnell, 25, died after self immolating outside the Israeli Embassy this past February in Washington, D.C., in protest of Israel's war in Gaza.  'My name is Aaron Bushnell, I am an active-duty member of the United States Air Force and I will no longer be complicit in genocide,' Bushnell is heard saying in video of the incident.  '

'I am about to engage in an extreme act of protest, but compared to what people have been experiencing in Palestine at the hands of their colonizers, it's not extreme at all.  This is what our ruling class has decided will be normal.'

Like Bushnell, Azzarello released his own manifesto before his act on Friday.  However, unlike the late servicemen, his motives appear a bit more muddied with most of his pages attacking facism and the supposed complacency of the general public.  In his Substack, he again states he is an 'investigative researcher'.  The rest of the profile amounts to a rambling diatribe ageist the establishment, which Azzarello appears to be the authors of 'totalitarian con'.  He also warns of a 'an apocalyptic fascist world coup', and in fliers posted to his social media, he flaunts other self made pamphlets centered around the 'dipshit secrets of our rotten world'.  'When the economy collapses and it feels like World War III overnight, you'll know exactly why,' Azzarello warns in the flier.  His profile claims he has been self-employed since March of 2023. In one post, he claimed to have served 40 days in jail for one of the incidents back in August.  The NYPD investigation into the incident, as of writing, remains ongoing.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13323451/Karen-Matthews-Michael-Donovan-daughter-Shannons-kidnap.html

Britain's 'worst mother' Karen Matthews seen for the first time since kidnapper Michael Donovan's death and still protests her innocence that daughter Shannon's ordeal had NOTHING to do with her

    Michael Donovan died on Tuesday after collapsing in a mental health hospital 

By Vivek Chaudhary and Eirian Jane Prosser and Aidan Radnedge

Published: 12:35, 18 April 2024 | Updated: 14:55, 18 April 2024

This is Karen Matthews, pictured for the first time since the man she conspired with to help kidnap her daughter died.  Kidnapper Michael Donovan had colluded with Matthew's in 2009 when he abducted her nine-year-old daughter Shannon and held her captive in a plot to claim a £50,000 award.  The schoolgirl, who had been drugged and hidden in the draw of a divan bed, was found 24 days later after police raided Donovan's council flat in Batley Carr, West Yorkshire.  Donovan and Matthews were both found guilty of kidnap, false, imprisonment and perverting the court of justice and served half their sentence of eight years in jail.  On Tuesday, it was announced that the Donovan had died age 54 after collapsing in a mental health unit at the Three Valleys Hospital in Keighley. He had been suffering from brain cancer.  Emerging for the first time today, wearing a long beige puffer coat and with her face hidden behind a pink scarf, Matthews emerged from her shabby flat and shouted 'I'm innocent, leave me alone.'

She stared intensely ahead as she rushed away with her hands in her pockets.  Matthews, 47, became a household name exactly 15 years ago when she appeared on TV crying as she appealed for people to come forward with information about her daughter's whereabouts.  Speaking on behalf of Matthews, her boyfriend Paul Saunders, a convicted paedophile told MailOnline: 'She's over the moon that Donovan is dead. It's the best news she's had in ages.  Karen hopes that he rots in hell, we both do. Donovan is scum, we hope that he had a painful death.'

He added: 'She was told about it in a phone call and she screamed with happiness. She was punching the air because this man deserved to die. Good riddance to him.'

Despite Matthews' conviction, Saunders insisted: 'She's innocent. It was Donovan who did the crime and kidnapped Shannon. She had nothing to do with it. People have got this all wrong.'

Shannon was reported missing from her home estate in Dewsbury, West Yorkshire, on February 19, 2008.  Police launched a £3.2million search to find Shannon, only to discover that she had been tied up and drugged in Donovan's home for 24 days hidden in his bedroom with a list of rules on how to behave.  The girl was found in the drawer of a divan bed in his bedroom, just a mile from her Dewsbury home.  Saunders today revealed that Matthews has not seen her daughter or her other six children for 'several years' and has no contact with the rest of her family.  He said: 'Karen has been unfairly portrayed as Britain's worst mother. But it's total lies. Donovan is the only criminal here.'

Saunders was jailed for five years at Oxford Crown Court in 2010 for sexual activity with a child and sexual assault. He must sign the Sex Offenders' Register for life.  He and Matthews live together in the south of England and are believed to have been together for around five years. They met after Saunders worked at her home as a handyman.   Shannon and her siblings have been granted new identities and lifelong anonymity following a High Court injunction in 2020 and are kept apart from their mother.  Matthews and Donovan were both jailed for eight years at Leeds Crown Court in January 2009 after being convicted of kidnap, false imprisonment and perverting the course of justice.  Each served four years of their sentences before being released in 2012. Matthews was released in April 2012 and given a new taxpayer-funded identity and home.  Her new name Kate was said to have been inspired by one of her Hollywood idols.  Since leaving prison Matthews, who is apparently teatotal, previously was receiving regular support from a group of religious volunteers.  Matthews was seen in a fish and chip shop despite her disguise and somebody noticed her and threw a plate of mushy peas over her head, according to a passerby who saw her in 2017.  Following the alleged attack in a chip shop, a source said: 'Karen thinks this is just the start and wonders how many more attacks she will suffer.  She was glad it was just a few peas but next time it could be worse. She was living quite a peaceful life until this programme came along.  But Karen being Karen, she doesn't think it is anything to do with what she did by kidnapping her daughter.'

The source added: 'She is a long way from Dewsbury and has only been recognised a couple of times in a year.  But now with this new drama on the telly she's petrified. The show is bringing her crimes to the attention of lot more people, who were younger at the time and weren't aware of what she did.'

Matthews case was pushed back into the public eye following the 2017 BBC drama The Moorside which saw Sheridan Smith play family friend Julie Bushby.  The BBC1 programme was made by ITV Studios and watched by 7.2million viewers at the time.  Matthews cousin, Susan Howgate, slammed the drama at the time saying it would 'bring everything back' and cause unnecessary pain.  'Family members will get grief like they have done in the past. I've had a lot of trouble, and same with my auntie. People keep saying stuff to her still,' Ms Howgate said at the time.   

Following the programme's release, Matthews was said to be fearing for her life, using a face scarf to cover her identity walking the street. Since leaving prison she reportedly gave up drinking.  She took up a job at a charity shop after struggling to find another because of her notoriety.   Matthews claimed she was struggling to survive on benefits of £25 a week and prayed every day to find the strength to carry on.  In 2020 it was revealed that Matthews had been fired from her job at the charity shop after bosses found out she wanted to marry a paedophile.  The good cause store is linked to a Christian group who were appalled when they heard what she had done.  After news of her engagement to Saunders was made public the shop told she can no longer work there over here 'error in judgement over the relationship.  'The boss was gobsmacked when they found out what had happened, a source told The Sun. 'They told her they can't have someone working there in a relationship with someone like that. It goes against everything the charity stands for.'

Despite their convictions, Matthews and Saunders both appear to be living a normal life. The mother has been spotted leaving a B&M store, buying trainers and visiting a Pets at Home Store.  The couple have also been buying fish and chips together.   Julie Bushby has suggested Shannon 'can get some peace now' that Donovan has died.  She told the Mirror: 'At least now the taxpayer will save some money, and Shannon can get some peace and some closure.  Every time a picture of him is shown it must hurt her every time there's a picture of Donovan or her mother, it's alongside her picture. That's got to be hard to live with.'

Ms Bushby was one of the woman involved in the search for Shannon, later describing how the community 'paid the price' for Matthews' and Donovan's crimes.  She was among those who slept all night in a community centre with the lights kept on to act as a beacon to help the schoolgirl find her way home.  In 2016, Ms Bushby said many people living in the area felt like they were partly blamed for what had happened, said: 'It's as if they punished us for what happened and killed our community spirit.  There's only about a handful of the originals left on the estate most have moved because they don't want to be associated with it.'

Donovan is said to have told a relative earlier this year he had been given just three to nine months to live after being diagnosed with Stage 3 brain cancer.  He was given the name Paul Drake when born but later changed it to Michael Donovan after a TV sci-fi character, before another recent switch to Aiden Johnson.  West Yorkshire Police was last year investigating him for the alleged possession of child pornography and he was placed under a sexual harm prevention order after appearing at Bradford Crown Court.  A relative of Donovan said: 'He had told me in the past that he had cancer, but I didn't believe him at first because he would make things up. I was told he had lung cancer which spread to his brain.  I'm glad that his suffering is finally over. I feel sorry for Mick he was a fool to himself.'

And Ms Bushby suggested she was not surprised by the revelation about the sexual harm prevention order, saying: 'It's clear he was still a danger to children - so it's good he's dead.'

Ms Bushby added: 'It would have been over in a breath if we'd been told that but instead it turned into one of the biggest police hunts ever.'

Donovan was pronounced dead on Tuesday afternoon after collapsing at Three Valleys Hospital, whose private operators Elysium Healthcare refused to comment.

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Fun, Games And Silliness / SIGNS YOU OVERDID IT FOR THANKSGIVING
« on: April 16, 2024, 11:26:12 AM »
SIGNS YOU OVERDID IT FOR THANKSGIVING

> Paramedics bring in the Jaws of Life to pry you out of the EZ-Boy.

> The Gravy Boat you used was a real 12 foot boat.

> You get grass stains on your behind after a walk, but never sat down.

> You set off three earthquake seismographs on your morning jog Friday.

> Pricking your finger for cholesterol screening yields only gravy.

> You had five TV sets side-by-side to catch all the football games.

> That rash on your stomach turns out to be steering wheel burn.

> Representatives from the Butterball Hall of Fame called twice.

> It looks like the leftovers are gonna last until Christmas.

> Your arms are too short to reach the keyboard & delete this.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13313385/venomous-snake-bite-british-tourist-cyprus-intensive-care.html

British tourist is left in intensive care after being bitten by venomous snake during meditation session while on holiday to Cyprus to mark her 40th birthday

    Sam West, 40, was bitten by a blunt nosed viper on April 3 at her Cyprus hotel

By Miriam Kuepper

Published: 09:12, 16 April 2024 | Updated: 10:34, 16 April 2024

A British tourist has been left in intensive care after being bitten by a venomous snake during a meditation session while on holiday to Cyprus to mark her 40th birthday.  Sam West, 40, from Shifnal, in Shropshire, was bitten by a 5ft-long blunt nosed viper on April 3 as she was getting ready to start a meditation session at the Atlantica Aphrodite Hills hotel.  'It quickly, before I had time to react, bit me just above my left ankle,' she told the BBC.

'I started to shake the snake off as I shouted that I had just been bitten by a snake.'

'My leg was burning and throbbing, the pain was instantaneous,' she added. Hotel staff quickly came to her aid and she was taken to A&E, where she was told she urgently needed anti-venom. 

Ms West, who is on holiday in Cyprus with her wife, had to spent four days in intensive care and another in a different ward.  She was finally discharged to the hotel with medication last Monday.  She has since relied on a wheelchair to get around after pictures showed her leg being severely bruised and swollen due to the snake bite.  Ms West is now paying £260 a night for a room with disabled-access.  She is currently waiting on an update from her insurance company on when she could fly back to the UK after not being fit to fly until today.  Ms West said the hotel had cut back the area around the meditation platform where she was bitten and has repeatedly called pest control.    In addition, meditation sessions have since been moved to the hotel's dance studio.  She reportedly received more than 350 messages since the incident and was being supported by TUI staff.  The employees also rushed to her side to help her when she was bitten, Ms West said.  TUI UK & Ireland told the BBC that it was 'aware' of Ms West getting bitten by a viper at the hotel, adding that the safety of the guests was the company's 'highest priority'.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13306641/Schoolboy-eight-killed-hit-car-horror-accident-quiet-Wiltshire-cul-sac.html

Schoolboy, eight, killed after being hit by a car in horror accident on quiet Wiltshire cul-de-sac

By Eirian Jane Prosser

Published: 10:41, 14 April 2024 | Updated: 11:39, 14 April 2024

An eight-year-old schoolboy has died after being struck by a car on a quiet Wiltshire cul-de-sac.  Emergency services were called out to the crash in Woodland View, Dilton Marsh at 4.30pm on Saturday.  The incident, which saw the quiet road in the rural village closed last night, involved a vehicle and the young boy who had been walking in the area.   The tragic scene saw Wiltshire Air Ambulance scramble to the road alongside other 999 responders but despite their best efforts, he was pronounced dead at the scene.   The little boy's family have been informed and is being supported by a specialist officers.  A man in his 30s is being interviewed, the police said, as 'is usual in these circumstances'.  Tributes have flooded social media this morning, with many paying their respects tot the boys family.  One wrote: 'What an sad news fly high little sending hug and love to his family and friends at this sad occasion.'

Another said: 'This is so very very sad. Sending my thoughts to his family at this most unimaginably awful time.'

'Rest in paradise beautiful boy, thoughts are with the family,' a third added, while a fourth wrote: 'My condolences to the family, this is so tragic to read.'

The devastating collision happened in Dilton Marsh on the warmest day of the year so far.  The quiet village has a local pub, called The Prince of Wales, a pre-school and a primary school as well as a parent and toddler group.  Woodland View is a small cul-de-sac with a few new build houses backing onto a large field. It is a close walk from both the primary and prep school.  'Our thoughts are with them at this extremely difficult time', a Wiltshire Police spokesperson said.

'A man in his 30s is being interviewed, as is usual in these circumstances,' they added.

Witnesses to the collision or anyone with dash cam footage are being urged to contact the serious collision investigation team on 01225 694597 quoting log number 218 of yesterday's date (13/04).

Witnesses can also contact the team directly by emailing SCIT@wiltshire.police.uk.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13298793/Mother-student-died-inhaling-hippy-crack-nitrous-oxide-class-drug.html

'My 24-year-old daughter died inhaling three bottles of hippy crack a day. If she knew the risk she'd still be alive': Mother calls for nitrous oxide to be a class A drug as she reveals she checks her messages every day 'to hear her daughter's voice'

    Sharon Cook's daughter Ellen Mercer, 24, died on February 9 last year
    Ms Mercer was rushed to hospital after losing feeling in her legs

By Eirian Jane Prosser

Published: 07:55, 12 April 2024 | Updated: 08:15, 12 April 2024

The heartbroken mother of a young woman who died after inhaling up to three large bottles of nitrous oxide has called for the 'hippy crack' to be made a Class A drug.  Ellen Mercer, 24, from Gerrards Cross in Buckinghamshire, died in hospital on February 9 last year after being rushed to hospital when she lost feeling in her legs.  On Tuesday an inquest into the death of the business student, who had bipolar disorder, found that nitrous oxide, also known as laughing gas, in part caused her death.  Sharon Cook, 54, is calling for the government to crack down on the party drug, exclusively telling MailOnline that her daughter would still be alive today if she had been aware of its harmful effects.  Ms Cook also said she still checks her messages every day, 'thinking there will be a message from her daughter on WhatsApp or Messenger,' adding: 'I can still hear her voice.'

Ms Cook added: 'I don't think she realised how dangerous the drug was. As it was legal she was inclined to think it was safe.  I don't think she realised just how harmful it is and if she had realised she wouldn't have taken it.  I read somewhere that there had been 56 deaths in the last few years and they weren't very well publicised, I had no idea and hadn't heard about it.  Obviously it's heartbreaking. [The government] needs to come down harder on it and they should definitely make it a Class A drug. It is dangerous so it should be up there with heroin and cocaine. Class C is not strong enough in my book.'

Nitrous oxide, sometimes referred to as NOS, was made illegal last year with the Government making it a Class C drug. Users can face a community order or an unlimited fine, with repeat offenders potentially serving up two years in prison.  The drug can be used in medical settings but those caught supplying it for unlawful reasons could face 14 years behind bars.  Ms Mercer's post-mortem found she had died of bilateral pulmonary thromboembolism, deep vein thrombosis, and 'long-term complications of nitrous oxide use'. 

'Large blood clots' had formed in the young woman's legs before moving to the arteries in her lungs which caused a 'sudden cardiorespiratory collapse'.  In the months before her death Ms Mercer had required urgent medical care several times, including just days before on February 5 when she called the ambulance service saying she was 'unable to get up' and felt 'pain in both legs and lower back.'  The student had initially told her boyfriend not to call an ambulance as she did 'not want to lose the buzz', it was reported.  Ms Cook was unaware her daughter had been taking the drug but recalled the last time she spoke to her, Ms Mercer had complained about losing the feeling in her legs.  She told MailOnline: 'I had no idea at all [that Ellen was taking the drug]. I spoke to her a few days before she died when she said she could not walk.  And I said go to the hospital, you must go to the hospital and then I didn't speak to her after that. That was the last time I spoke to her.  She did go to the hospital after that the following day and she called 999 but obviously it was too late.  I just wish she had gone sooner. If she had gone two weeks prior when she first lost the feeling in her legs she would probably still be with us now, so that is hard to think she didn't have to die.'

The grieving mother, however, does not just place the blame of her daughter's death on the Government's laws on the drug.BBMs Cook blames the failures within the mental health services, who had discharged and failed to check up on her daughter despite warnings from her mother.  She believes Ellen had been using the drug which cause people to feel relaxed, light headed or dizzy as a form of coping mechanism after not getting the correct support from the health service.  'I think had her mental health been more stable she would not have gone down this path with nitrous oxide. If she was in her right mind she would not have done it. So I think she was really failed by the mental health services, completely failed,' she said.

'She had bipolar and she got discharged from the mental health services before becoming ill again,' she added.

'They didn't follow her up and I rang them and asked them to go see her and they just ignored it. They didn't go see her. But she was struggling with her mental health.'

Upon her discharge from the mental health facility in April 2022, Ms Mercer was supposed to be given a higher dose lamotrigine to help treat her bipolar, however, her mother said this was never followed through.  After Ms Mercer's death, her mother said she received a letter from the NHS trust 'admitting they had failed and should have done more' to help her daughter.  Ms Cook said her daughter's mental health had declined after the death of her father when she was 19-years-old.  'She never really got over it. It hit her really hard and her grandmother had died just eight days before, so we had a double funeral. It was a really tough time,' she added.

Ms Mercer's brother, Joe, 27, also said mental health issues had also played a role in the death of his deeply 'kind and deeply caring sister'.  He told MailOnline: 'At her core, she was a very bubbly, energetic person. She was incredibly positive. Whilst drugs were involved in the situation.  I think really what we are looking at here is a mental health case that didn't receive as much attention as it should have.  People with bipolar have addictive personalities and drugs are addictive substances the two will go hand in hand.'

Paying tribute to his younger sister, Mr Mercer added: 'She was incredibly energetic, a million miles an hour on anything she was passionate about. She was kind, caring and deeply thoughtful for people.  She kind of filtered between a lot of different interests but the primary focus of a lot of them was art, in any form.  Whether that was drama or singing or writing or drawing, she tried her hand at all of them to varying degrees of success.'

Ms Mercer had been living away from her family home for almost three years when she died. She had moved in with her boyfriend in a rented flat in Woodford Green in Buckinghamshire.  She had done well at both GCSES and A Levels but had decided not to go to university because of her mental health.  Paying tribute to her daughter the day after the inquest concluded, Ms Cook said: 'She was funny, kind, caring. She was just a lovely girl. She was really into acting, singing and dancing when she was younger.  She was really outgoing, a real extrovert. A pleasure to have around. Always 100 miles an hour but funny with it.

What are the risks of nitrous oxide?

Nitrous oxide, has been nicknamed 'laughing gas' due to the euphoric and relaxed feeling people who inhale it can sometimes feel.  The substance also known as 'hippy crack' is normally bought in pressured canisters, commonly transferred to a container, e.g. a balloon, from which the gas is inhaled.  Although possession of laughing gas is not currently illegal, English law prohibits its sale to under-18s if there is a chance they will inhale it.

The effects of nitrous oxide:

• Feelings of euphoria, relaxation and calm.

• Dizziness, difficulty in thinking straight and fits of giggles/laughter.

• Sound distortions or even hallucinations.

• In some people, a headache can be an unwanted immediate effect.

Risks include:

• Unconsciousness or death from lack of oxygen. This occurs when the available oxygen for breathing is effectively pushed out by the nitrous oxide.

'You always knew she was in the room, you were well aware that she was around, you couldn't miss her. She really was so funny. One day she would just come rollypollying into the living room and she would just do these mad things.'

Ms Cook now lives with her son and her younger daughter Daisy, who was just 11-years-old when her older sister died.  'She misses her. It's been really hard on Daisy,' the mother, who used to work as a courier added.

The family are understandably still coming to terms with the sudden loss, but Ms Cook said they are coping as best they can.  'We are coping. It was obviously harder in the first few months,' she said. 'It has gotten easier as time has gone on but I still expect to hear from her.  I still check my messages and think there will be a message from her on WhatsApp or Messenger. I can still hear her voice.'

Medics who tried to save her found there were 'features of neurological compromise' with later tests finding that laughing gas had left her with serious circulation and breathing problems.   Michaela Kirtley, an emergency medical technician from Phoenix Response Services, a contractor that worked for South Central Ambulance Service, attended Ms Mercer's home on February 8.  When she arrived at the scene, she was shown to the bedroom by Ms Mercer's boyfriend.  'I took notice of the room,' she said. 'There were no sheets on the bed at all. There was just the duvet, severely stained. The room was bare.'

The scene the medic had witnessed made it clear to her that she was dealing with a 'vulnerable person'.  Ms Mercer was said to have been 'talking as normal' with the only vital sign outside its normal range was her heart rate, which could have been due to anxiety.  The young woman said she had burned her legs after spilling a gas canister on them and that she had been unable to walk or go to the toilet for two weeks, she said.  According to the emergency worker the 24-year-old looked six months pregnant and the wounds on her legs were described as being filled with pus.  Ms Mecer's boyfriend then led her to a box of gas canisters, which were identified as nitrous oxide.  'I had never seen such big bottles,' Ms Kirtley said.

She told the inquest that the canisters were 600g and that Ms Mercer's boyfriend said she took 'two to three bottles' per day, but had slowed down in the last couple of weeks.  Her boyfriend said she 'shouted at him' because she wanted to continue her high, when he was asked why he did not call an ambulance, according to the Sun.  At the opening of Ms Mercer's inquest in February, Berkshire coroner Hannah Godfrey said that the student 'had a history of nitrous oxide abuse'.

Between 2001 and 2020, 56 deaths in England and Wales had nitrous oxide mentioned on their death certificate.  Some deaths, however, included in medical settings so not all had been because of misuse.  In recent years, use of the drug has become an increasing problem, being one of the most abused substances with those aged 16-24.  Last summer, at Notting Hill Carnival it was reported that there were 13 tonnes of canisters containing the drug collected after the festival.  Inhaling the gas brings about short-term feelings of lightheadedness, fits of giggles and hallucinations.  Heavy, regular abuse, however, risks significant health risks including anaemia and in more severe cases, nerve damage or paralysis.  It has been identified as having potentially fatal consequences on the UK's roads from incidents of drug driving.  Nitrous oxide, however, does have legitimate uses such as being used on maternity wards during labour. It is still legal for those purposes.  Licences are not needed to carry nitrous oxide, but users will be required to demonstrate they are not intending to consume it for psychoactive effects.

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Fun, Games And Silliness / The dog
« on: April 05, 2024, 11:34:24 AM »
A clergyman was walking down the street when he came upon a group of about a dozen boys, all of them between 10 and 12 years of age.  The group surrounded a dog. Concerned that the boys were hurting the dog, he went over and asked "What are you doing with that dog?"

One of the boys replied, "This dog is just an old neighborhood stray. We all want him, but only one of us can take him home. So we've decided that whichever one of us can tell the biggest lie will get to keep the dog."

Of course, the reverend was taken aback. "You boys shouldn't be having a contest telling lies!" he exclaimed. He then launched into a ten minute sermon against lying, beginning, "Don't you boys know it's a sin to lie," and ending with, "Why, when I was your age, I never told a lie."

There was dead silence for about a minute.  Just as the reverend was beginning to think he'd gotten through to them, the smallest boy gave a deep sigh and said, "All right, give him the dog."

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Fun, Games And Silliness / The wedding
« on: April 05, 2024, 11:32:20 AM »
A little boy was in a relative's wedding. As he was coming down the aisle he would take two steps, stop, and turn to the crowd (alternating between bride's side and groom's side). While facing the crowd, he would put his hands up like claws and roar loudly.  So it went, step, step, ROAR, step, step, ROAR all the way down the aisle. As you can imagine, the crowd was near tears from laughing so hard by the time he reached the front. The little boy, however, was getting more and more distressed from all the laughing, and was near tears by the time he reached the pulpit. When asked what he was doing, the child sniffed and said, "I was being the Ring Bear."

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Fun, Games And Silliness / The cough
« on: April 05, 2024, 11:30:42 AM »
The owner of a drug store walks in to find a guy leaning heavily against a wall. The owner asks the clerk "What's with that guy over there by the wall?" 

The clerk replies, "Well, he came in here this morning to get something for his cough. I couldn't find the cough syrup, so I gave him an entire bottle of laxative."

The owner screams, "You idiot!  You can't treat a cough with a bottle of laxatives!"

The clerk calmly replies, "Of course you can! Look at him; he's afraid to cough."

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13247695/gogglebox-stars-died-remembered-wake-george-gilbey-death.html

The Gogglebox stars lost over the years: Famous faces on Channel 4 hit no longer with us remembered in the wake of George Gilbey tragedy

By Matt Strudwick

Published: 09:24, 28 March 2024 | Updated: 10:00, 28 March 2024

Gogglebox fans are in mourning following the shock death of George Gilbey, aged 40, in a 'work accident'.  The former Celebrity Big Brother star died yesterday when he fell to the ground while working at height. He died at the scene.  The TV personality's death has rocked fans of the show as tributes poured in on social media.  The father-of-one had a seven-year-old daughter Amelie Iris Gilbey with Gemma Conway in 2016.  George, from Clacton-on-Sea, rose to fame on the second series of Gogglebox with his mother Linda McGarry and step-father Pete in 2013.  MailOnline has taken a look back to remember all of the famous faces of the Channel 4 hit show who are no longer with us. 

Pat Webb

The beloved Gogglebox star died aged 75 in January following a 'long illness'.  Pat, who featured on the show from series 10 to 12 alongside her son Stephen Lustig-Webb.  Stephen, who appeared on the show for 10 years before leaving in 2023, took to Instagram and shared a sweet photo of himself with his mother.   He wrote: 'Mummy Pat, you were one in a million, took everyone at face value, would share your last fiver with a stranger, the salt of the earth and the absolute centre of our world! Rest in peace mum.' 

Pat joined Gogglebox after Stephen's ex-partner Chris Steed left the programme in 2018.  From 2019 until 2023, Stephen appeared alongside his husband Daniel.  Stephen was one of the series' longest-running stars having joined when it first started in 2013.
 
Dave the Rottweiler

Gogglebox's Malone family shared their devastation in October 2023 that their beloved dog Dave had died.  The adorable pooch was known to millions of viewers as he regularly appeared on the Channel 4 show alongside the family Tom Sr, Julie, Shaun and Tom Jr.  The family took to Instagram to share their heartbreak as they confirmed the upsetting news.  They posted a sweet video of the Rottweiler standing on their driveway waiting for Tom Sr to return home alongside a heartfelt caption.  The family gushed over how much their beloved dog Dave meant to them and confessed that they would miss him 'so much'.  They wrote: 'RIP Dave xxx There are no words to describe you, or how much you meant to us.  We are all going to miss you so much.'

Pete McGarry

The step-father of George Gilbey died from bowel cancer in June 2021, aged 71, with his family by his side.  His beloved wife Linda revealed he had been diagnosed with the disease earlier that year but despite a recent operation to remove the tumour, was told he only had six months to live.  He died just days after the prognosis, with the widow telling The Sun: 'Pete was a lovely man and I was so lucky to have him for 25 years.'

A statement issued on behalf of the family announcing his death said: 'Pete will be dearly missed by the entire Gogglebox family, cast and crew. Our thoughts are with Linda, their children and grandchildren.  Since 2000, Pete and Linda have fostered over 100 children and he is a beloved father, husband and grandfather.'

Mary Cook

The TV personality, famed for her witty one-liners, died aged 92 in August 2021. She appeared alongside the show with her best friend Marina Wingrove.  Channel 4 announced the news in a statement that read: 'We are extremely saddened to share that Gogglebox star Mary Cook passed away in hospital this weekend at the age of 92 with her family by her side.  She will be dearly missed by the entire Gogglebox family, cast and crew.'

They added that Mary was a 'beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother and dear friend to many.'

Mary, who worked in the hospitality trade, had been married and widowed twice, and met best friend Marina at St Monica Trust retirement village more than ten years before her death.  The pair joined Gogglebox in 2016 at the start of series eight and became instant fan favourites due to their 'brilliantly witty and often cheeky comments.'

Andy Michael

The Gogglebox star also died in August 2021 aged 61 following a short illness.  The family first appeared on Gogglebox in the debut episode in 2013, but were dropped in 2014 because Mr Michael was running for Ukip in the 2015 General Election. After he failed to secure the Hastings and Rye seat, the family returned for future episodes.  Mr Michael, who won a legion of fans by sharing his unfiltered views on the week's TV alongside his wife Carolyne and children Katy, Alex, Pascal and Louis from their home in Brighton, was the son of immigrant parents from Cyprus.  A family statement, given to the PA news agency at the time, said: 'We are deeply saddened to share the passing of Gogglebox star Andy Michael at the age of 61 following a short illness.  'Andy passed away last weekend with his family by his side. 'Retired hotelier Andy, who brought much wit and insight to Gogglebox, was one of the show's original cast members, appearing in the very first episode in 2013.  Beloved father to Katy, Alex, Pascal and Louis, and cherished husband of Carolyne, Andy was a much-loved and respected member of the Gogglebox family, and he will be very sadly missed.  Our love and thoughts are with Carolyne and the entire family. The family have asked for privacy at this very sad time.'

June and Leon Bernicoff

June died in May 2020 aged 82 - three years after her husband Leon passed away.  The retired teacher died following a short illness and was one of Gogglebox's original cast members alongside her husband.  She left the show in 2018 following Leon's death, aged 83, in December 2017 following a short illness.  A statement from Channel 4 and production company Studio Lambert, on behalf of June's family, said: 'We are deeply saddened to announce that Gogglebox's much-loved June Bernicoff passed away at the age of 82 on May 5 at home with her family by her side after a short illness.  As the first couple to be cast for Gogglebox back in 2013, June and her husband Leon were a huge part of the programme's success.  Their warmth, wit and contrasting personalities endeared them to the nation during the course of the first 10 series.  Following Leon's passing in December 2017, June wrote her first book, Leon And June: Our Story, which was a deeply moving and entertaining chronicle of their 60-year love affair.'

June met Leon at teacher training college in 1955, but kept their relationship a secret for five years, as she knew Leon's Jewish family would not approve due to her Catholic faith.  They married in 1960 and moved into the same Liverpool home that they appeared in during their Gogglebox stint, and had four children and three grandchildren.

Caroline Aherne

The comic great died in 2016 aged 52 following a two year battle with lung cancer.  She starred in The Royle Family as well as the show's specials in 2006 and 2010 before becoming the voice of Gogglebox in 2013.  A statement issued by publicist Neil Reading said: 'Caroline Aherne has sadly passed away, after a brave battle with cancer.  The BAFTA award-winning writer and comedy actor died earlier today at her home in Timperley, Greater Manchester. She was 52.'

Aherne passed away alone at her home in Cheshire because her family were not aware her condition had deteriorated, a family member told The Mirror.  'It was too quick, we didn't expect her to go,' they said. 'She wasn't in a hospice. She was just at home. She left on her own.'

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13191273/Iron-lung-man-Paul-Alexander-dead-78-Man-paralysed-suffering-Polio-six-year-old-lived-iron-lung-70-years-dies.html

Iron lung man Paul Alexander dead at 78: Lawyer who was paralysed after suffering Polio as a six year old and lived in an iron lung for 70 years dies

    Paul Alexander contracted polio in 1952 and spent a lifetime in an iron lung
    His team confirmed via his fundraiser that he had died aged 78 on Monday

By James Reynolds

Published: 08:51, 13 March 2024 | Updated: 11:41, 13 March 2024

Paul Alexander, the man who lived in an iron lung for more than 70 years, has died at the age of 78.  A fundraiser for his healthcare confirmed Alexander, of Dallas, Texas, passed away on Monday without providing further details.  Alexander spent an extraordinary lifetime in the iron lung machine after contracting polio in 1952, aged six, which left him paralysed from the neck down.  Unable to breathe by himself, he relied on the machine to breathe for more than seven decades even as new technologies became available.  But in spite of his physical constraints, Alexander achieved much as a published author, lawyer and avid traveller, remembered worldwide for his enduring positive attitude and smile.  Writing on Alexander's GoFundMe page, Christopher Ulmer, organiser and disability-rights activist, said on Tuesday: 'Paul Alexander, “The Man in the Iron Lung”, passed away yesterday.  'After surviving polio as a child, he lived over 70 years inside of an iron lung. In this time Paul went to college, became a lawyer, and a published author.  His story traveled wide and far, positively influencing people around the world.  Paul was an incredible role model that will continue to be remembered.'

Over an extraordinary life, Alexander's determination saw him achieve a number of remarkable achievements.  At 21, he became the first person to graduate from a high school in Dallas without ever attending class in person.  He was accepted into Southern Methodist University in Dallas, after much difficulty with university administration and then got into law school at the University of Texas, Austin.  He pursued his dreams of becoming a trial lawyer, and represented clients in court in a three-piece suit and a modified wheelchair that held his paralysed body upright.  He also staged a sit-in for disability rights and published his own memoir, titled 'Three Minutes for a Dog: My Life in an Iron Lung'.  The 155-page memoir was carefully crafted and took five years to complete; Paul wrote each word with a pen attached to a stick in his mouth.  Paul outlived both of his parents, his brother and even his original iron lung, which began leaking air in 2015, but was repaired by a mechanic Brady Richards, which was prompted by a YouTube video of Paul pleading for help.  The ventilator, a large yellow metal box, requires patients to lie down inside, with the device fastened tightly around their neck.  It works by creating a vacuum to mechanically draw in oxygen to the lungs for patients whose central nervous system and respiratory function were affected by polio.  While in hospital, doctors tried to get Paul to breathe on his own, turning off the machine and forcing him out, but it wouldn't take long for him to turn blue and pass out.  Despite the availability of more modern ventilators, Paul decided to continue using the iron lung machine because he was used to it.  Other devices also require intensive surgery.  Over his lifetime, Alexander never let the device get in the way of what he wanted to achieve, travelling on planes, living independently, praying in church, visiting the ocean, and falling in love.  While at university, Alexander met Claire, who he later became engaged to. He spoke candidly to The Guardian about how her mother forbade him from speaking to her daughter.  'Took years to heal from that,' he told the outlet.

In later life Alexander built a close relationship with Kathy Gaines, who became his caregiver or 'arms and legs', in his words.  Gaines stepped in to help after Alexander graduated law school, supporting him for more than three decades.  Alexander said the pair 'grew together', Gaines herself legally blind from type-1 diabetes.  Polio is an infectious viral disease that affects the central nervous system respiratory function and can cause muscle weakness and paralysis. It is transmitted through contaminated water and food or contact with an infected person.  It has largely been eradicated around the world after widespread use of the vaccine which came into use in the 1950s.  The disease remains endemic in just four countries today: Nigeria, Pakistan and Afghanistan.  Polio was recently eradicated in India following an extensive campaign over a period of some 20 years, successfully ending the epidemic with sustained oral and injected vaccines.

What is polio?

Poliomyelitis is an infectious disease that can cause paralysis or even death.  While efforts to produce vaccines effectively ended the epidemic in the western world by the latter half of the 20th century, polio remained one of the most deadly threats to children well into the 1950s.  Polio spreads from person to person through the ingestion of faecal matter from an infected person, or less commonly through coughs and sneezes.  Despite advances in sanitation and hygiene practices through the 19th century, the number of cases of polio in Europe and America soared through the early 1900s.  In the first stage of contracting the disease, the infection stays in the digestive system and throat. Most babies are able to fight off the disease at this point without it becoming debilitating, developing immunity.  Children who develop the disease later on are often less well prepared to fight it without having developed resistance, which can see polio enter a second, more aggressive stage, affecting the central nervous system.  Awareness of how diseases spread in unsanitary conditions saw great steps forward in overcoming epidemics in cholera and typhoid, but the reduced exposure to the polio virus in youth meant many children caught the disease later in development by the 20th century, with horrifying consequences.

Sources: Science Museum, NHS

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General Discussion / UNKNOWN SOLDIER
« on: February 28, 2024, 11:47:06 AM »
UNKNOWN SOLDIER
By Deirdre Reilly

Although it is summertime now, one way to keep Christmas in your heart all year long is to remember the lessons of Christmas throughout the year. This brings me to recall something very special that happened to two men and three children, and bears repeating.    

Very early in the morning last December, my husband and my eight year old son happened across a United States Army soldier on an exit ramp near the town where we live. It was a very cold Sunday morning, when frost lay on the ground and tree limbs were stark and twisted against a thick gray sky. Not too many other cars were out, and those who were out were hurrying to get somewhere, exhaust coming from each car in warm-looking puffs as they glided down the highway, frost still on the windshields. My husband and son were coming home from my son's 6 AM hockey game, and looking forward to getting breakfast out together and then returning home, where the rest of us lay dreaming.  As my husband approached the end of the ramp the soldier got out of his car, a grey Maxima that had broken down. The soldier was in full dress uniform, and was cold, and very young; early twenties, my husband guessed. My husband pulled over to see what he could do to help. The soldier needed a cell phone, he said he was going to call his girlfriend to see if she could come and get him and his two daughters his daughters were bundled into the cold car and bring them back home to Derry, NH, where they lived.  My husband looked into the car and saw the soldier's four year old, dressed in her best party dress, and a baby, zipped up to her chin into her thick snuggly. The three of them had been on their way to a Christmas party at the Boston barracks when the car had chosen that time to die. At this point, the soldier was just trying to get home; the party had been given up on. The little girl grinned at my husband from the back seat, and I know he must have grinned back at her, too.  My husband moved the little girls into our car, where the four year old proceeded to become very interested in my eight year old "she was patting me," he reported in a resigned way to me later, upon the re-telling of their memorable morning and the men talked about the young soldier's options.

My husband told me that this young man was, to him, a soldier first someone who already, with his young life, done much for us just by his service but he was also a young man who still didn't have all the answers. We have a son of our own who is just a few years younger than this soldier who was sitting beside him. The soldier didn't have Triple A, and he had no one to call for help. As the baby stared, round-eyed, at them all, my husband offered his Triple A for a tow, and then offered to take the soldier and the children into Boston for the party. The soldier had decided to just try to get back home, and so they called for the tow and my husband offered to drive the three of them back to New Hampshire.  They chatted as they waited; my husband commented that the Christmas party sure was early, if they had been on the road at six in the morning, and the soldier commented that "the army does everything early."

They all sat together, my family and his, and then headed up north after the tow truck came, the soldier's broken-down car following behind them.  There is the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, guarded twenty-four hours a day with honor in Washington, D.C., but there is also the living Unknown Soldier, among us every day. Crippled by war, perhaps, or mentally ravaged by what he has seen in a country far away, or maybe just young, and needing a hand with the stuff of everyday life they are here, with us right now. We are sometimes stymied by the American soldier how do you begin to thank people who pick up a gun and say good-bye to everyone who matters and fly far away because they believe in protecting the country we all live in?    

Sometimes, you give them a cell phone and your Triple A, and make sure their children are warm. My husband watched the uniformed soldier and his dressed-up little girls climb the steps of their big old three-family house, where toys dotted the yard and the frost was beginning to thaw and show the green underneath. My husband was reluctant to talk about this to me, downplaying the aid he had offered. But eight year olds sing like canaries. I think my husband feels that at the end of the day, it was just one dad helping another dad get his children home. And one man helping another, too, trying, through his actions to say thank you very much, Unknown Soldier, for all you have given up and gone through and laid down for all of us, even though to you, we are Unknown Americans.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13103789/what-happened-Fred-Rosemary-Wests-children-stephen-wright.html

What happened to Fred and Rosemary West's children: Almost 30 years after 'house of horrors' was found, STEPHEN WRIGHT reveals how some live in fear, others have built happy lives while a few were cut down by fresh tragedy

By Stephen Wright

Published: 13:49, 20 February 2024 | Updated: 14:31, 20 February 2024

For some three decades, Barry West had tried to escape the ghosts of his childhood.  As a schoolboy, he had been given a new identity and moved to a different part of the country a place of safety to help him bury the nightmare of his upbringing.  But the odds were stacked against him. And when his body was discovered slumped over a table by a mental health support worker, it seemed almost inevitable. He'd suffered for years from post-traumatic stress, anxiety, depression and long-term drug addiction.  Death at the age of 40 would have been a release from the horrors he witnessed as a child at 25 Cromwell Street, Gloucester, the notorious address where his parents Fred and Rose West slaughtered nine girls and young women including Barry's older sister Heather.  His passing from an overdose in supported living accommodation was not a violent end like those of the poor souls who suffered at the hands of his parents.  But it marked yet another tragedy in one of Britain's most shocking homicide cases.  It is 30 years ago this month that the West murders first came to light. On Thursday, February 24, 1994, police turned up at Cromwell Street with a warrant to search the garden for Heather's body. Two days later, they unearthed a human bone.  I reported on the case extensively for the Mail from those early days as more and more bodies were being discovered, through to the trial of mother-of-eight Rose at Winchester Crown Court in the Autumn of 1995. Her co-killer Fred had taken his life in a Birmingham jail on New Year's Day that year, mistakenly believing his death would spare her prison.  I sat through every day of Rose's seven-week trial. She was convicted of ten murders and told she would die in jail. It was a case which, for me, redefined the meaning of the word 'evil'.  What the victims went through how they were abused, tortured and raped before being killed and dismembered was utterly terrifying.  Over the years, many books have been written about the West case and countless TV documentaries made. All have focused largely on the killers and those they slaughtered.  But there is another category of victim whose stories have not been reported so widely. These are the West children, brought up in the most depraved and dysfunctional family imaginable.  Before the discovery of Heather's butchered remains under the patio at Cromwell Street in February 1994 the moment when the true horrors of the house started to unfold the Wests' offspring suffered abhorrent sexual abuse, repeated physical beatings and shocking mental torment.  It was not unusual for Fred to force them to watch video recordings of their prostitute mother (who worked under the name 'Mandy') having sex with customers upstairs. Three of her daughters were fathered by her customers.  Here was a home where, when Fred and Rose were not killing, life revolved around debauchery and sexual abuse. In evidence at Winchester that sent a chill down my spine, a witness recalled hearing a child scream 'stop it Daddy' from another room in the middle of the night.  How could anyone raised in such a warped environment not be affected by it?

How do you cope with being a child of arguably Britain's most evil couple ever?

Make no mistake, each of the West children were victims. As was Anne Marie West, Fred's daughter from his marriage to his first wife Rena. Nobody who heard her harrowing testimony when she gave evidence against her stepmother Rose will ever forget it.  Fred, who murdered Rena in 1971, repeatedly raped Anne Marie from the age of eight and made her pregnant when she was 15. And though she fled Cromwell Street, avoiding the fate of her dead half-sister Heather, her suffering did not stop.  Now 59, Anne Marie once gave a tearful, heartbreaking account of life with Fred and Rose in a TV documentary interview but she has not spoken publicly about her ordeal for many years.  Her stepbrother Barry also managed to escape the family home, albeit as a result of social services' intervention, but he was never able to shake off his appalling past. Now his harrowing story and those of some of his other siblings, who have tried desperately to rebuild their lives, can be told.  Barry John West, born at Gloucester Maternity Hospital on June 16, 1980, was named after Barry Island in South Wales where the family went on day trips. The Wests' second son was just 15 when his mother went on trial for serial murder.  He was one of five West children the others being Tara, Louise, Rosemary Junior and Lucyanna taken into care in August 1992 after police and social services became concerned about their welfare.  The authorities acted after one child, who was being repeatedly abused by Fred, showed a school friend the wounds to her body after one particularly brutal assault.  Fred was charged and Rose was subsequently accused in court of aiding and abetting rape and buggery of a daughter. But the trial collapsed the following year after their children, in a sign of the complicated relationship between the abused and their abusers, declined to give evidence against them.  Nevertheless, those five children would never return to Fred's and Rose's care, and police stepped up inquiries into the fate of Heather, who had disappeared aged 16 in 1987. In time, this led to that search of the Cromwell Street garden and the discovery of her body.  As Fred confessed to more and more murders, police switched attention to the cellar, where further butchered human remains were found.  Fred and Rose had targeted not only their own children, but live-in nannies, teenagers in care enticed to Cromwell Street with the promise of a bed and companionship, and young women lured into the couple's car wrongly feeling secure because of Rose's presence in the front passenger seat.  Some were kept alive for just hours, others for days during which, bound and gagged, they endured repeated sexual assaults before being murdered. Police found hooks drilled into rafters in the cellar, their use not hard to imagine. At least one victim had had plastic tubes stuffed into her nostrils through masking tape wrapped around her face.  By the time all this emerged, Barry had been given a new identity (which for legal reasons we are not disclosing) and moved to a new home well away from Gloucester.  As he moved into adulthood, he lived an itinerant life and was registered on the electoral roll at a series of addresses. He also spent time at Priory House, a mental health unit in the Home Counties.  His death he was found slumped over the table by his support worker on the morning of August 28, 2020 sparked internal investigations at the local county council.  Medical records revealed Barry had a complex medical and mental health history including an opioid addiction and a history of heroin misuse dating back 19 years. He had tried to take his own life in 2015 and there had been 'many overdoses'.  The coroner ruled that he had died as a result of misadventure following 'voluntary injections of pain relieving medication' including morphine, codeine and pregabalin, an anti-anxiety treatment.  A family friend said: 'Barry's was a difficult and tragic life. He was a very complicated, unhappy person and was badly damaged. He was 40 when he died but it was like talking to a much younger, immature person.' The friend added: 'He never found peace, he never escaped the ghosts of his past.'

His elder sister Mae, who had not been taken into care, also found life after Cromwell Street very challenging. Her 2018 memoir, 'Love as Always, Mum xxx', laid bare her on-going anguish.  She described how Fred often put 'hard core porn' videos on TV for his children to watch some featuring 'mum and her clients'.  'Dad didn't make any secret of the fact he sometimes filmed her having sex,' she said. '...I used to find it completely repulsive.'

She added: 'We always knew about their interest in kinky sex: they never tried to hide it from us. They'd leave porn magazines lying around the house, along with bondage gear: masks, rubber suits, whips and the like. It wasn't unusual for us kids to come across dildos, vibrators and other sex toys just lying around the house. It amused Dad, more than anything, to see how we reacted.'

Rose used to ask Mae to answer the doorbell when clients arrived and would disappear upstairs with them, sometimes several clients over a period of hours.  Yet she still has happy childhood memories, and reminisces about family holidays in the countryside. 'My siblings and I all came to believe that, however strange and distressing things might be within the four walls of our house, we needed to stick together,' she said.

Today mother-of-two Mae, 51, lives at a secret location and remains in constant fear of being revealed as a West child. 'The shadows of the past remain,' she has said.

'Knowing your parents are regarded by most people as evil beyond belief is incredibly hard to live with I've found it very hard to deal with the assumption some people have had that my sisters, brothers and I grew up to think our parents' cruel and bizarre behaviour was normal. That couldn't be further from the truth.'

In her book, she added: 'I still see [sisters] Tara and Louise regularly. The three of us are in intermittent contact with our other brother and two sisters, even though they're scattered far and wide across the country, have new identities and are leading their own lives.  I know the abused can become abusers, and in my parents' case that was true. I strongly believe that this doesn't have to be the case. The cycle can be broken. My own children have grown up free of the terrible consequences of physical or sexual abuse.'

In a 2020 podcast her brother Stephen, who was born in 1973 and has not had an easy life himself, revealed he had not had any contact with his jailed mother for more than 20 years. He explained it was 'important' for him to cut his ties with her.  He said: 'In 1999, she called with hate and was blaming me for everything. She said I should have died when I was born and all that sort of stuff. It was a disgrace.'

Tara, born in 1977, was the first of three of Rose's illegitimate daughters conceived with black clients while she was working as a prostitute at Cromwell Street and at other locations.  One of Rose's favourite haunts, which she frequented with one particular regular called Rosco, was the Tara Hotel which gave rise to the name she chose for her daughter.  Tara moved out of the Gloucester area, changed her name and has struggled to form relationships.  Speaking in 1999, Tara said: 'I hate showing my tender side to men. I think it is a weakness. I pretend I am hard. I just can't say "I love you". I fear rejection because of my upbringing. I never said "I love you" to Mum and the love I gave Dad was just used by him.'

She had a string of broken romances behind her. 'A lot of men just can't handle the fact that my Mum and Dad are Fred and Rose West. I told one bloke and he literally ran out of the house. He was so scared.'

She used to visit her mother twice a year in prison and wrote to her frequently. She also met up with her brother Stephen and older sister Mae to talk about the past. 'We don't talk about the sad things. We try and remember the good times,' she said in 1999.  Sometimes she used to see Barry and her two other sisters, Rosemary Junior and Lucyanna, who have also started new lives away from Gloucester. Lucyanna went to university and is now working as a therapist in a different part of the country.  Now 46, Tara was last known to be living in a neat semi-detached house in a quiet town in the North of England.  Three decades have passed since the horrors of 25 Cromwell Street were first revealed to the world. The story of the West children is one of very mixed fortunes. But what of their monstrous mother?

In the months leading up to her trial, while researching the background of the case, I was introduced to a Roman Catholic nun who had comforted Rose at a remand prison near Bristol. Sister Paul gave me a letter Rose had sent to her.

It gives an extraordinary insight into the mind of Britain's most prolific female serial killer. Full of spelling mistakes, Mrs R.P West, as she called herself, wrote the letter at H Wing at Durham Prison where she was held in the run-up to her trial.  'We have a lovely chapel and I have meet (sic) the chaplins (sic) who are all very friendly,' she wrote. 'It was great to go to church on Sunday, and to praye (sic) together with other inmates and to share the closeness of God with them. I have made lots of friends here and I'm never short of a kiss or a hug when it is needed.'

Of course, her supposed conversion to Christianity was a lie. She has never come clean about what really happened at Cromwell Street, or said whether, as many suspect, there are more bodies to be found.  John Bennett, the highly respected ex-Detective Superintendent who led the police case, told my Mail+ True Crime podcast he believes Rose will take her secrets to the grave.  'I doubt very much that she will ever say anything more than she's already said, which is absolutely nothing at all,' he said. 'I think she is now  institutionalised. She's quite comfortable with being who she is, and where she is, and her personal circumstances. There is no gain for her whatsoever to make further admissions or to assist anybody.'

And as her former solicitor Leo Goatley wrote in his 2019 book Understanding Fred and Rose West, she likes prison: 'I know Rose accepted prison as the location of her being, as her domain and her domicile. The all-female environment also suited Rose's lesbian preferences, as her various relationships (including with Moors murderess Myra Hindley) verify. She can sew and knit, prepare meals, adorn her cell, watch television make her cell space pretty much as she want its.'

As another landmark anniversary approaches in this most macabre of cases, will she reflect on her evil deeds including the murder of her own flesh and blood?

Probably not. For her, life behind bars at high security HMP New Hall in West Yorkshire where a recent arrival is serial baby killer Lucy Letby is good. How sickening it is to consider that she is probably the happiest of the surviving West family.  About 200 miles from her jail, there is a 19th century church in Monmouthshire with an unusual grave. It is here 'in God's acre' at St Michael's Church in Tintern Parva that can be found the final resting place of Heather West.  Her grave is adorned with trinkets, mementoes, flowers and icons including a stone hand-painted with her name. It has recently been scrubbed to remove old lichen and moss.  She is watched over by a carved angel and the dedication reads: 'In our hearts, There lives a memory, Of a love, That once was ours.' A further inscription bears the dates of her short life which ended in 1986.  But one thing really stands out: only Heather's first name is on the headstone.  Minister Jan Pain said: 'It is unusual for a headstone to have just the person's first name and not their surname but in this case you can see why Heather's nearest and dearest might want to distance her from any association with West.'

Heather's sister Mae, who was in charge of her funeral, explained: 'I didn't want the name West used. To do that, would have defiled her memory.'

For Barry, that association with the word 'West' and the memories it stirred up was simply too much to bear.

Special Reporting: Simon Trump

The fates of the children

Barry: Died aged 40 in August 2020 after years of depression and long-term drug addiction

Tara: Aged 46, one of three of Rose's illegitimate daughters conceived with clients

Rosemary Junior: Started a new life away from Gloucester

Lucyanna: Went to university and now works as a therapist

Louise: Given a new identity but in intermittent contact with her siblings

Heather: Murdered by Fred and Rose and buried under the patio. Remains discovered in 1994

Mae: Aged 51, now a mother-of-two and lives in a secret location

Anne Marie: Fred's daughter from his first marriage with Rena. Now 59

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Heartbreaking footage shows Wimbledon crash victim Selena Lau, eight, playing the piano at an end-of-term tea party before Land Rover smashed into grounds of school killing her and another classmate

    Selena's parents say they are desperate for answers and justice seven months on

By Danya Bazaraa

Published: 10:33, 5 February 2024 | Updated: 11:57, 5 February 2024

Heartbreaking footage shows eight-year-old Selena Lau beautifully playing the piano moments before she was killed when a 4x4 ploughed into an end of term party at her Wimbledon school.  Selena, who was a pupil at The Study Prep, was performing at a concert before the £80,000 Land Rover crashed through the primary school's gates during an end of term picnic which followed last July.  Shortly after she was given a warm round of applause and the concert finished, pupils and their families went outside for the picnic, where the car smashed through a fence. Selena and her friend Nuria Sajjad, also eight, were both killed in the incident while dozens of other children and parents were injured.  Seven months on from the tragedy, a video of Selena playing Scott Joplin's ragtime classic The Entertainer has been released by the Times. It is the last video made of Selena before her death.  Selena's parents Franky and Jessie Lau, both 45, treasure the clip of their daughter's faultless performance, but have spoken out about being desperate for answers and justice.  They also revealed in a new, emotional interview with Talk TV that they suffer flashbacks and nightmares, saying they are 'suffering every day' and sharing their agonising frustration over the long-running police investigation.  The couple broke down in tears as they spoke about their 'funny, cheeky daughter' and admitted they are haunted by guilt over not being with her when she died.  A police update also confirms a 46-year-old woman from Wimbledon who was arrested at the scene on suspicion of causing death by dangerous driving is currently released under investigation.  Jessie wept as she recalled seeing her daughter's body. 'I first saw her lying on a bed near the reception area. So alone with a tube in her mouth, blood stains and bruises on her face. It comes flashing back every day, every night, and I wish that was me lying there not her, I wish I could swap with her, I'd give anything I have to have her back.'

Recounting the phone call from Selena's school receptionist, Selena's mother said: 'She was like, 'Just come, something really serious has happened at school. I thought it may be a broken arm, I didn't expect anything else. Her voice was shaking, and she was like, 'You have to come now.'

'I was thinking why don't you take her to the hospital, it takes me an hour to get there. It doesn't make sense to wait for me to go to the hospital. And then I start crying.'

Franky, who had been working from home, had already made his way to the school. He said: 'There was so much traffic at that point because the school was cordoned off. All the police were there I caused a bit of a scene outside and they took me inside to the hall. And I saw my mum and a friend, the parents there, and they just came to me and said Selena's gone.'

Video of Selena playing piano at a concert on the tragic day has also emerged. But shortly after she was given a warm round of applause and the concert finished, pupils and their families went outside for the picnic, where the car smashed through a fence.  Selena's parents Franky and Jessie treasure the clip of their daughter's faultless performance, but have spoken out about being desperate for answers and justice.  Jessie told the Times: 'It was the end of my world.'

Franky added: 'Each day it drags on, we are replaying what happened. We just want answers and justice. We are owed answers to what happened to our daughter.'

Selena's father Franky told Talk TV he will always regret not attending her final piano performance that fateful afternoon: 'We replay that day in our head every day. Was there anything we could have done to make that not happen?  Should I have gone to see the performance? She would have been speaking to me for an extra few seconds, which would have made all the difference.  If it rained, they wouldn't be having the picnic outside. All these different scenarios, every day.'

The pain and uncertainty is also taking a heavy toll on Selena's twelve-year-old sister. 'They were best buddies since the day Selena was born, doing piano, netball, dancing and singing classes together,' said Jessie.

'Now she's withdrawn from all those activities. That's not fun anymore. She's been sobbing at night because they used to listen to songs together before going to sleep and chat. She's been crying on her own.'

Police said a 46-year-old woman from Wimbledon who was arrested at the scene on suspicion of causing death by dangerous driving is currently released under investigation. Enquiries are ongoing.  Detective Chief Superintendent Clair Kelland, in charge of policing for south west London, told MailOnline: 'Our thoughts remain with the families of Nuria and Selena who we know are greatly loved and missed.  This was a tragic incident and we understand that the families want and need answers as to what happened.   We are continuing to give them specialist support through our dedicated family liaison officers who are providing updates on the investigation where they can.  Specialist detectives are working tirelessly to establish the circumstances of that day, including analysing CCTV and examining the expert report from forensic collision investigators.  The incident involved the large scale deployment of joint resources from the Met, LAS and LFB and we are working closely with them, as well as the Crown Prosecution Service, as part of our investigation.  We recognise that the time taken can cause further distress but it is only right and fair to all involved that we carry out a thorough and extensive investigation.'

Heartbroken family members previously described Selena as a 'cheeky' young girl who was 'adored by everyone'.  Selena's classmates said she was 'beautiful inside and out'.  Tributes left alongside flowers outside the school described Selena as a 'star'. One said: 'You will always be our shining star. We will miss you so much.'

Another note left for Selena from one of her friends read: 'I will never forget you.'

* The full interview with Selena's parents can be seen on TalkTV on the Vanessa Feltz show. 

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