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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13384271/Britains-heaviest-man-50st-bullied-died.html

Tragic demise of Britain's 'heaviest man' as he dies aged 33: Heartbreak behind why Jason Holton ballooned to 50st and the 'devastating' moment he was airlifted out of bed by crane

By Katherine Lawton and Elena Salvoni

Published: 09:21, 5 May 2024 | Updated: 10:33, 5 May 2024

Britain's heaviest man who died from organ failure told how losing his father as a toddler and being bullied at school saw him balloon to 50 stone in weight.  Jason Holton, from Camberley in Surrey, died just days before celebrating his 34th birthday, after being housebound for eight years due to his large frame.  The 33-year-old died last Saturday after doctors were unable to prevent his organs from failing.  Mr Holton began overeating as a teenager, and attributed bullying at school and mental health problems as the root cause of his weight gain.  He added that the death of his father when he was just three years old also had a profound impact. He told TalkTV: 'Maybe if I had my father around, maybe there would be rules set to what I'm eating and stuff to stop me putting things and stuff in my mouth.  Just eating constantly.  Lamb doner meat, I had a problem with energy drinks. I just decided to get 15 of the Monster cans and drink them all in one go.'

His mother Leisa told The Sun that her son recently 'started to go downhill' after his kidneys stopped working.  'He's probably had about eight lives and I thought the doctors would be able to save him again, but sadly it wasn't possible,' she said.

Mr Holton was reportedly transferred from his home to Royal Surrey County Hospital by a special ambulance which six firefighters had to carry him to.  His mother said he was put on kidney dialysis and an IV drip but that his organs continued to fail.  Doctors then told him he would pass away within a week, she said, and he passed away on Saturday.  The coroner's report stated that he died from organ failure and obesity.   Mr Holton lived in a custom-built council bungalow fitted with specially reinforced furniture.  He had hoped to be prescribed slimming jab Wegovy, without which he feared he would die by 2025, describing his situation as a 'timebomb'.  He told TalkTV in October: 'I believe time's over for me in general. I'm coming up 34 now. I know I've got to try something.'

At his peak, he weighed more than 50st and dubbed himself 'Britain's fattest man'.  At one point, Mr Holton would consume 10,000 calories a day four times the usual daily amount for a man including eating doner kebabs for breakfast   He was deemed too heavy for a gastric band. In 2022, he suffered a series of mini strokes and a suspected blood clot.  In 2020, he collapsed and had to be airlifted by crane from his mother's third floor flat by a team of more than 30 firemen and engineers.  He described the incident as 'the most devastating time of my life. The terrifying part of it all was the amount of people outside.'

His health problems meant he was unable to work, leaving him on benefits. It is estimated his healthcare cost the taxpayer hundreds of thousands of pounds.  He insisted he cut down and had been eating healthier, but that it had made little difference.  He said: 'I've been making changes which I seriously have for the audience by the way I have been, my diet now it's not consistent of loads of junk and I'm not changing.'

Mr Holton is believed to have become the UK's fattest man after 65st Carl Thompson died in 2015.  The 33-year-old, from Dover, had been housebound for more than a year after doctors warned he needed to lose 70 per cent of his body-weight to survive.  When his mother died of a brain tumour in 2012, Mr Thompson turned to junk food as a means of coping with his grief despite already being obese.  His weight went from 30 stone to 65 in three years, leaving him unable to care for himself.  Unable to walk or even dress himself, he was bathed and cooked for by a team of NHS carers. He died after suffering from organ failure and sepsis.

Doner kebabs, crisps, chocolate and three tubs of chicken chow mein: His 10,000-calorie daily diet

Morning

Large doner kebab meat portion and chips (2,500 calories)

Pop tarts (200 calories in each one)

Afternoon

Three large tubs of chicken chow mein (2,500), prawn crackers (400) and prawn toast (300) from Chinese takeaway

Pop tarts - There are around 200 calories in each pop tart

Evening

Two cheese sandwiches, (1,000) two chocolate bars (1,000) and three packets of crisps (550)

1.5 litres of orange juice (800) and five cans of diet coke (trace)

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You know it's going to be a BAD DAY when...

> You jump out of bed in the morning and miss the floor.
 
> Your four-year-old greets you with the news that its almost impossible to flush a grapefruit down the toilet.

> The bird singing outside your window is a vulture.
 
> Your horn gets stuck when you're following a group of Hell's Angels on the freeway.
 
> You get to work and there's a 60 Minutes news team waiting in your office.
 
> Your twin sister forgets your birthday.
 
> Your doctor tells you that you're allergic to chocolate.
 
> Your boss tells you not to bother to remove your coat.
 
> Your blind date turns out to be your ex.

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I do wonder about some people ....

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13283663/Mother-dead-ex-husband-murder-suicide.html

Mother-of-six, 49, is found dead along with her ex-husband, 52, in 'murder-suicide' in quiet residential street

By Sam Lawley

Published: 10:52, 8 April 2024 | Updated: 11:45, 8 April 2024

A mother-of-six has been found dead along with her ex-husband in a suspected 'murder-suicide' in a quiet residential street.  Vicala Gheorghe, 49, is thought to have been fatally stabbed by Marian Gheorghe, 52, before he took his own life.  Ms Gheorghe was found seriously injured at her home in Caludon Road, Coventry, at around 5.30am last Friday.  She was rushed to hospital but died a short time later while Mr Gheorghe was pronounced dead at the scene.  A post mortem will be carried out next week to establish the causes of death.  A West Midlands Police spokesperson said: 'The pair were former partners and forensic post mortems will take place next week to establish the causes of death.  'We're continuing our enquiries into exactly what happened but at this stage we strongly believe Marian injured Vicala and then himself.  We're offering support to family members during this distressing time.  We are not looking for anyone else in connection with this incident at this stage.'

Six rescue crews, including three ambulances, rushed to the property after receiving an emergency call last Friday morning.  A West Midlands Ambulance Service spokesperson said: 'We were called to reports of a stabbing on Caludon Road in Coventry at 5.30am.  Three ambulances, two paramedic officers and the Air Ambulance Critical Care Car were sent to the scene where, on arrival, crews found two patients: a man and a woman.  'The man, who was in a critical condition, was receiving basic life support from police colleagues before ambulance staff took over and immediately began administering advanced life support.  Sadly, he could not be saved and was confirmed dead at the scene.  The female patient, who had suffered serious injuries, received advanced trauma care from medics before being conveyed on blue lights to University Hospital Coventry and Warwickshire.  'However, shortly after arrival at hospital, sadly it became clear she could not be saved and was confirmed deceased.'

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Toast
« on: April 08, 2024, 12:12:48 PM »
An explorer in the deepest Amazon suddenly finds himself surrounded by a bloodthirsty group of natives. Upon surveying his situation, he says quietly to himself, "I'm toast."

A ray of light breaks forth from the sky and a voice booms out: "No, you are NOT toast. Pick up that stone in front of you and bash the head of the chief."

So the explorer picks up the stone and proceeds to bash in the head of the chief. He is breathing heavily while standing above the sprawled out-chief.  Surrounding him are the 100 native warriors with a look of shock on their faces.  The voice booms out again: "Okay NOW you're toast!"

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Efficiancy
« on: April 08, 2024, 12:10:50 PM »
An efficiency expert concluded his lecture with a note of caution. "You don't want to try these techniques at home."

"Why not?" asked somebody from the audience.

"I watched my wife's routine at breakfast for years," the expert explained.

"She made lots of trips between the refrigerator, stove, table and cabinets, often carrying a single item at a time. One day I told her, 'Hon, why don't you try carrying several things at once?'"

"Did it save time?" the guy in the audience asked.

"Actually, yes," replied the expert. "It used to take her 20 minutes to make breakfast. Now I do it in seven."

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Faith / Re: Devotions
« on: April 05, 2024, 12:09:38 PM »
https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2023/05/31/keep-moving-into-your-future?utm_campaign=Daily%20Devotions&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-8K-14uoHy49ua_TZCdpnu84VHSb1udXM3aRh_t24R_-K4lJIbHemcR5cRyEUGr7R9dKs7_8wLqbrcHF0WlygFwwdIf4w&_hsmi=257850591&utm_content=257850591&utm_source=hs_email#disqus_thread

Keep Moving Into Your Future
May 31, 2023
by Christine Caine

“When the time came to completion, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba, Father!’ So you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then God has made you an heir.” Galatians 4:4-7 (CSB)

I love that adoption is the heart of the gospel and not because I’m adopted.  Well, maybe a little because I’m adopted.  But the truth is God could have used any metaphor to explain how we become a part of His family. Yet He used this intimate metaphor of adoption to show us that He actually chose us to be His children because He loves us and that is where our identity lies.  “When the time came to completion, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, ‘Abba, Father!’ So you are no longer a slave but a son, and if a son, then God has made you an heir” (Galatians 4:4-7).

We are meant to live securely in His love, knowing we are His loved children.  But the reality is we often outsource the source of our security by making others our authority, by placing their opinions of us above God’s truth about us. If we do this long enough, it can lead us off the course of God’s purposes and on a personal quest to seek our value, worth and belonging from those who can’t give it to us.  In all of life, the most insecure position to be in is the one in which we have something to prove or something to lose. So anytime and every time we seek to find our security in anyone or anything other than God, we will be plagued with insecurity. Can you think of anyone in your history who has this place of power over you?

Who are you still looking back at, desperately longing for them to validate you?

Maybe you’re looking back at:  A father who was never satisfied.  A mother who you couldn’t do enough to please.  A teacher who said you’d never amount to anything.  An ex-spouse who said no one could ever love you.  The middle-school or high-school mean girls who shamed you for your body.  Or maybe you’re looking back at what you consider to be your worst mistake, the one by which you’re still defining yourself.  Instead of glancing back to learn, grow, develop and repent, we’ve grown accustomed to constantly looking back, and that looking back has gotten us stuck and fixated on the past. We’ve allowed whatever is back there to define us, limit us, label us and trap us. But the same Jesus who saved us wants to set us free (John 8:36).  If you are a follower of Christ, I assure you that you are fully loved, no matter what anyone else has ever said to you or about you, no matter what anyone has ever done to you, no matter what mistakes or failures you’ve experienced. You are His adopted, beloved, chosen child.  He’s loved you since before the foundation of the world (Ephesians 1:4) and He will not stop.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13270797/Morecambe-Bay-cocklepickers-human-skull-bones-beach-Chinese-workers-drowned.html

Has the last mystery of the Morecambe Bay cocklepickers finally been solved? Family renting holiday home find human skull and bones on beach two decades after 23 Chinese workers drowned there with one body never found

    Lancashire Police say they are 'keeping an open mind' over the remains
    The only victim whose body remains unaccounted for is of Dong Xin Wu

By Oliver Price

Published: 10:34, 5 April 2024 | Updated: 11:02, 5 April 2024

A family renting a holiday home by the sea found a human skull and bones on a beach and may have solved the last mystery of the Morecambe Bay cockling disaster, two decades after 23 Chinese workers drowned there.  Mother-of-two Jenny, 50, her husband Mick, 52, and their 10-year-old twins were walking along Cove Road Beach in Silverdale, north of the bay, when they saw a rocky outcrop and decided to go fossil hunting on Easter Sunday.  Lancashire Police said officers were 'keeping an open mind' when asked if they could rule out a link to the deaths of 23 Chinese men and women, aged 18 to 45, who, on February 5, 2004, drowned as they collected cockles against a rising tide.  The tragedy began as panicked cocklepicker Guo Binglong shouted 'sinking water, sinking water,' in a 999 call until the phone went dead.

He was later found dead in a huge search and rescue operation.  The untrained and inexperienced cocklepickers were all illegal immigrants and were working for a criminal gang. Gangmaster Lin Liang Ren was found guilty of their manslaughter in March 2006 and handed a 14-year sentence before being deported to China in September 2012. His girlfriend, Zhao Xiao Qing and his cousin, Lin Mu Yong, were also convicted of immigration offences.  The only victim whose body remains unaccounted for is of Dong Xin Wu, aged 39 when he died, who worked a cobbler in China and had come to the UK to send money to his family.  A human skull found near Silverdale Point the same coastline as where the skull was found this weekend was proved by DNA tests in October 2010 to be the remains of missing victim Liu Qin Ying, a mother whose husband Yu Hua Xu also died in the tragedy, leaving their son an orphan.  The man who sent them out onto the sands in February 2004 gangmaster Lin Liang Ren was later given a 14-year prison sentence for manslaughter. He was described in court as 'callous' and motivated by money.  Jenny and Mick's twin son and daughter, who are both 'really interested in fossils and dinosaurs', saw and picked up several bones, including a hip, a large vertebra and a limb, initially thinking they were ancient animal remains.  'My son looked down and saw the skull in between rocks,' Jenny, from Lancashire, told MailOnline. He told his mother: 'That doesn't look like and animal or a rock.'

'When I first realised it was a human skull, a cold shiver went down my spine,' Jenny's husband Mick said. Jenny added: 'It was not until we found the skull that the penny dropped that these were human remains.  It was surreal my husband was a bit taken aback. I've got a criminology degree so I find that stuff really interesting. I thought I might have found something that needs to be investigated, even the children found it interesting.  It's not like finding a body, if we'd found a head it would have been more scary.'

As the tide was coming back out at just before 1pm, Jenny decided the best thing to do was to pick up the skull and some other bones and take them ashore and report the findings to the police. They left some bones as her son had dropped them before they realise their true origin.  Jenny said: 'We picked the skull up and the other few bones we had a vertebra and a rib and we brought them back to where we were staying. I reported it online to the police.'

She said she thought the remains had been there for a long time and that the skill was 'very clearly' human as 'you can see inside where the brain has been touching the bone', which she described as 'fascinating'.

After reporting it, she got a call from Lancashire Police 'within minutes' and they had already sent a detective to the beach to talk with her by around 4pm.  'The officers were taken aback,' Jenny said. 'It was surreal. It suddenly felt like we were in a Channel 4 series.  They treated as human remains and put the bones in the correct bags and took it to  the coroners' office.'

She said that officers had 'mentioned outstanding missing persons from the cocklepicking disaster', adding that 'cocklepickers was my first thought'.

While she says you normally 'shouldn't be touching stuff like that', she was glad she took the bones ashore as the tide had gone back out by the time the police had arrived. 'If they [the police] identify the bones, I hope it can give someone piece of mind,' she said.

Lancashire Police did not rule out a connection to the Morecambe Bay cockling disaster when asked by MailOnline, but said: 'Although we are keeping an open mind, there is nothing to link the bones to the Morecambe Bay cockling disaster at this stage.'

The force had earlier said: 'At 4.10pm on 31st March we were called to Cove Road Beach in Silverdale to reports bones had been found in the water.  Our initial enquiries have confirmed that some of the remains are human.  Although we are keeping an open mind as to the origin of the remains, we believe they have been in the sea for a prolonged period.  Our enquiries are expected to be ongoing for some time and we continue to liaise with HM Coroner.  Anyone with information which could assist our investigation is asked to call 101. Quote log 745 of 31st March 2024.'

Morecambe Bay cockling disaster: When 23 were killed by greed of illegal trade

The Morecambe Bay cockling disaster happened on the evening of February 5, 2004, when 23 undocumented Chinese migrants drowned by an incoming tide at Morecambe Bay while harvesting cockles off the Lancashire coast.  All of the victims, men and women aged 18 to 45, were illegal immigrants and were working for a criminal gang, often to send money to their families in China.  On the evening of the tragedy, the workers became trapped by rising tides on Warton Sands in Morecambe Bay.  The tragedy began as panicked cocklepicker Guo Binglong shouted 'sinking water, sinking water,' in a 999 call at around 9.30pm until the phone went dead. He was later found dead in a huge search and rescue operation.  The workers had been using fake cocklepicking licences which had been forged by Chinese gangmaster Lin Liang Ren, then 29, and his then 21-year-old girlfriend Zhao Xiao Qing, the BBC reported at the time.  Lin Liang Ren was found guilty of the manslaughter of 21 cocklers in March 2006 and handed a 14-year sentence before being deported to China in September 2012. His girlfriend and cousin, Lin Mu Yong, were also convicted of immigration offences.  Two of the 23 bodies were not recovered in the initial search operation.  But a human skull found near Silverdale Point the same coastline as where the skull was found this weekend was proved by DNA tests in October 2010 to be the remains of missing victim Liu Qin Ying, a mother whose husband Yu Hua Xu also died in the tragedy, leaving their son an orphan.  The only victim whose body remains unaccounted for is of Dong Xin Wu, aged 39 when he died, who worked a cobbler in China and had come to the UK to send money to his family.  After the trial, Det Supt Mick Gradwell, of Lancashire Police, branded Lin Liang Ren as 'callous and despicable', even saying that he had tried to blame some of the victims.  He said: 'Listening to some of the phone calls people were making, you can hear the harrowing noises of people as they are trying to save themselves.  It was a particularly horrible and tragic night - a very frightening and horrible way to die.'

'The first thing he did was look after himself. There was a cockler who came out of the sea, having saved himself from drowning, freezing cold and Ling Lang Ren told him to get out of the van while he looked after his own welfare.'

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Re: Movies and Actors
« on: February 22, 2024, 03:28:16 PM »
Annette

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elderly

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Re: Keep A Word, Drop A Word, Add A Word
« on: February 22, 2024, 03:21:43 PM »
dinner table

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Re: Word Association
« on: February 22, 2024, 03:18:42 PM »
hour

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Re: Movies and Actors
« on: January 06, 2024, 11:05:57 AM »
James Earl

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essence

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Fun, Games And Silliness / Re: Keep A Word, Drop A Word, Add A Word
« on: January 06, 2024, 11:03:55 AM »
china tea

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